I never wanted to be vengeful til now. She always talks about how better she is than a lot of people and everyone is stupid to her. She is a skeemer in many ways and she needs a taste of it bad. She is old enough to be his mom. He likes her money.
2006-07-12 10:31:24 · 34 answers · asked by violetrose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best revenge is NO revenge. If you set on this path, you will never be even enough, and it will consume all your energy...what a waste of precious time. Trust me, there will come a day when your X will wish he hadn't, will tell others what a fool he has been...it will get back to you one way or another, and you will be very glad you did nothing. And what/who would you do it to? I wouldn't be so quick to blame her...it takes two to tango, doesn't it? You just had the wrong dance partner from the start. If it were I, I would send her flowers with a "thank you" note. After all, she saved you years of wasting time with a loser you didn't know was a loser at the time. Take your energy and set about to build a good life on solid ground. The last time around, you built on sand, and you know it. Good luck...I wish you the best.
2006-07-12 10:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is for you to move on and be happier than you ever were with him. I know the pain and the anger in your heart all too well. You will show all of those around you exactly what type of person you are by the way you react to your ex's. I have often found that once a cheat, always a cheat. She probably will be in your same position soon enough
2006-07-12 10:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is the best revenge. Forget about the both of them. They are losers with no morals and no character. They aren't likely to be happy in the long run. He was obviously Mr. Wrong and she is Miss Skank.
Make a change in your life. Take a job in a new city or state. Put yourself in a more positive environment. Positive attracts positive when it comes to people. Get plenty of sleep, plenty of exercise and do whatever makes you feel good about yourself. Soon, you'll find that you are meeting people and maybe then Mr. Right will find you.
2006-07-12 10:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by CleverGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is a grand thing, but one gets impatient waiting on the visable results when you want to see them suffer as you have..
Be better than her and your ex in every aspect. Not for the sake of getting him back, but for yourself and because you can be. It's a mindset and a little more, mostly a mindset...
You don't need him and who the *bleep* cares about her?
He's weak and stupid. She's a ridiculous ho bag.
You're better than either of them and you have all the apathy in the world towards the situation to prove it. If you see them, give them a friendly / kindly wave. You wouldn't disacknowlege someone you knew unless you were bitter for some reason, right?
2006-07-12 11:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by belleofchernobyl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they deserve each other. The best revenge is letting them have each other and showing them how happy you are without either of them. It will come back to them somehow. If you try to do anything, bad things will happen to you. Some call it Karma. You haven't done anything wrong. Just enjoy life knowing you evicted the two most toxic people out of your life.
Best wishes.
2006-07-12 10:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to let her see you looking good and doing great in life. Any other kind of revenge will just make you look like you're jealous of her and if I were you that's the last thing I'd want her thinking
2006-07-12 10:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by purple rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to just ignore them completely. Anything you do will make you look evil and spiteful. Aren't you just happy to have jerks like them out of your life? Besides, if he likes her money, she'll get what's coming to her in plenty of time and so shall she. Just watch...you'll have a great laugh when someone comes up to you and tells you how badly it's going between the two of them.
2006-07-12 10:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are angry and hurt, but the best revenge- be very happy. Your exes think they have pulled something over on you, but they didn't. They showed what kind of people that they are. One will be cheating on the other one soon, and then all hell is going to break loose. I think they deserve one another, and you deserve someone to love and cherish you. So, no revenge in this case is the best revenge. They are going to do it to their ownselves.....God bless...
2006-07-12 10:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to carry on with your life and be happy. They both deserve each other and the lord will take care of them. The happier you become the miserable she will be. Good luck.
2006-07-12 10:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to do nothing. Believe me, it might taste sweet while your giving it, but it never solves a thing. Remember what goes around comes around.....
2006-07-12 11:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋