In college, I met a guy. After knowing him for 2 days, the strangest thing happened - I had a sudden urge to hug him when I got in trouble with my parents. Anyways, over a short period of time, we became very close friends. We talked about everything for hours on end - life, family, friends, future goals, past experiences, childhood memories, etc.. We had kind of like a shared journal in which we wrote daily to one another about anything. Everybody thought we were sleeping together - which was not true. We never even kissed. Then one day, he told me that he was 35. I was 19. I would never have guessed as he did not look a day older than 21. But it never mattered to me becasue after all, we were just friends. We cared for each other in such a deep way that it hurt. Unfortuantely, we had a big fight one day and were not speaking. A few days later, I got news that he killed himself. That was 10 years ago. Since then, I am married. I can't forget him. Need Details? IM me.
2006-07-12 10:39:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sad story, but life goes on. Just know that he'll always be in your heart for all those times you needed him. You didn't do anything wrong. It was his choice to kill himself...but since it was 10 years ago...just try to let it go...If you see him as a friend, then it'd probably be a friendship. If you love your husband now, then your guy friend would just be lust. =)
2006-07-12 10:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kindred spirits. It was a beautiful friendship, right? Maybe you should consider writing a novel, written in the same format as your journal. I'd love to read it but above all it will heal you. Peace!
2006-07-12 18:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WAS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WHILE IT LASTED, UNFORTUNATELY HE WAS NEVER HONEST WITH YOU AND THATS A SHAME CAUSE MAYBE YOU COULD HAVE HELPED HIM WITH HIS PROBLEMS.
2006-07-12 17:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋