Family & Relationships - 6 July 2006

Seems my fiance can't be happy. I know he had a BAD childhood.
He is very insecure and irresponsible when it comes to paying bills on time, budgeting, time with kids, etc.
I use to be a very freespirited, open, inspired person but now I am very depressed and have been for a while, can it be b/c of him?
I feel inspired when I hear certain songs or meet certain people who are not as insecure and are free, it also makes me feel like I've lost myself.
At times, I feel close to him but other times I don't.
I called just now to ask about the kids and how they are doing, ate breakfast, etc. He was very bland about it and said he feels wierd vibes from me and that I didn't ask how he was doing. I said that will happen sometimes, I'm not perfect andwill ask about the kids and not him at times, doesn't mean I don't love him.
Something's always wrong. And I feel very,very trapped and edgy.
My dreams seem distant, and when I tell him how he doesnt seem happy, I cant help but get frustrated, advice

2006-07-06 04:40:23 · 15 answers · asked by fiestygirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex boyfriend moved like 2 years ago. i got over him and am dating somebody else. last night i dreamt about my ex and i holding hands kissing and like flirting too, but i am in a serious relationship with somebody else. could it be that i am just yearning for affection? is this bad?

2006-07-06 04:39:57 · 8 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Singles & Dating

awnse if thats ur name

2006-07-06 04:39:49 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

2006-07-06 04:39:37 · 6 answers · asked by sweetie taken 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-06 04:38:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband hit me again today this time it was different it was not my arm this time it was fist in my chin 1 time then I hit back then he hit me again in my chin the he hit me on arm 2 time was I wrong to hit back he hit before it use to be every 6 months but now it going to every month does it mean it getting worse i scared if i leave he take my son

2006-07-06 04:38:41 · 28 answers · asked by amanda_ploof 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

pft...so i met this girl at school.. she was cool and all that.. then at sime point she made it apperant tat she liked me and all that.. so u know i was thinkin bout askin her out and all that crap then i started seein crap like her name on a tatoo, apartment name, street signs, checks,books,companies had her last name.. so i was all... "fauk this this is weird im just gunna end up getting over her in a week ne ways" so last time i saw her was tha last day of school then i called er that day (dono why i was gunna leave a bunch of messeges similar 2 tha 1's in that song phycho bit ch by tech nine) she was all u got my # out of the directrory? i was like.. yea.. u werent sapost 2 answer tha phone u messed it up u dumb blonde. she was all yea i mess everything up.. then there was a awkward scilence... then she hung up (didnt know i liked her) so that was the last time i talked 2 her than i had a dream or two with er in me(notdirty) and i was all oh crap.. i really like this1wat should ido

2006-07-06 04:38:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-06 04:37:04 · 19 answers · asked by aurorasMOM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i liked this one girls for about 6 months, and just stopped liking her a little bit ago because she was in Europe for a while. While she was gone i started liking another girl. Both are my friends. This new girl i started liking just left the state for the rest of July. Now im starting to liking the original girl. Should i ask either of them out. I am 16 and never asked a girl out before.

2006-07-06 04:36:58 · 20 answers · asked by helloboredom28 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband hit me again today this time it was different it was not my arm this time it was fist in my chin 1 time then I hit back then he hit me again in my chin the he hit me on arm 2 time was I wrong to hit back he hit before it use to be every 6 months but now it going to every month does it mean it getting worse i scared if i leave he take my son

2006-07-06 04:36:52 · 31 answers · asked by amanda_ploof 1 in Family

Fish: (destiny's child background music) Baby can you handle this,
Baby can you handle this, Baby can you handle this, I don't think you can handle this... my body's bootylicious for you babe!

(bubbles in the aquarium)

Me: (annoyed) oh no... you're so dead...

Friend: dude chill out!! chill out!!

2006-07-06 04:36:47 · 21 answers · asked by whatever_dude™ 1 in Singles & Dating

Well last wednesday he call me and we started fighting and he said all this mean stuff but their is something that I'm concern about he said I don't care about your life I don't care about anyones life I care abou't my life,and he said you have something that I Don't have I'm like what and he said a family.

2006-07-06 04:35:40 · 22 answers · asked by Yeny 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-06 04:35:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-06 04:34:59 · 5 answers · asked by gun.slinger19 1 in Friends

My boyfriend lies about past relationships and things that are going on still today with past relationshjips and his finances. Then when he gets caught he still denies it and tells me I'm crazy.

2006-07-06 04:34:47 · 35 answers · asked by Kelleigh H 1 in Singles & Dating

If they have slept with many partners.

2006-07-06 04:34:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any advice how to cope my emotions at work. When I am busy, it was not that bad. However, when I have less to do at work, the emotions start kicking in. No one in my office knows about my divorce except for my boss.

2006-07-06 04:34:29 · 7 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-06 04:34:27 · 15 answers · asked by Dusky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother-in-law buys gifts for us from her adult children without them knowing. Just puts their names on it. They are both able to afford to buy gifts themselves. They never purchase gifts themselves.

2006-07-06 04:34:23 · 17 answers · asked by cawecm 2 in Family

2006-07-06 04:32:54 · 9 answers · asked by sporty1gurl86 1 in Family

2006-07-06 04:32:51 · 24 answers · asked by No way man 2 in Singles & Dating

if i fight someone my size (tall and strong) who has been bullyin around,
then this girl i lik will be really impressed
shud i go for it?

2006-07-06 04:32:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 6'0'' even ,flat footed. And I can't seem to find a guy that is tall enough or taller than me. I have three girls,but, he isn't in the picture anymore.I just want someone to chill with, maybe more. I live in a small town called Ocala(between Orlando and Tampa) , But,the only fella here with sense is the white boys(trust me i have no problems with that either!!!!) It's just that ,I'm not sure where to look since i'm starting over...HELP .. if you can.

2006-07-06 04:32:26 · 5 answers · asked by hermese b 1 in Singles & Dating

My boss runs all over me, but I let her do it becasue I need this job. To pay bills and to go to college. But today it was the last straw. I have had it!!! I had to walk home in the f***in rain. I waited on them for 30 f***in minutes. I want to cuss her out soooo bad, but I don't want to lose my job. I need something to calm me down right now because I am about to snap. What do I do?

2006-07-06 04:32:21 · 5 answers · asked by judyju2004 1 in Singles & Dating

Is watching TV a good way to build a relationship with your family or is it bad.

2006-07-06 04:32:11 · 5 answers · asked by chef 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He has started doing things like never before..as in.changing the kinds of music,cleaning his car more than usual,leaving for work earlier than before (over 20 yrs), tell me to listen to this song about unfaithfullness...Red Flags, right????????

2006-07-06 04:31:43 · 32 answers · asked by just me here 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been waiting forever..and no one that I like seems to come along. I'm starting to give up on love...

2006-07-06 04:31:30 · 22 answers · asked by Marian 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-06 04:30:42 · 33 answers · asked by Shooter 2 in Singles & Dating

The thing is I can't drive to her job or her house, so I have to deliver something to her. What can I get for her that could be sent to her? Specifically, her office?

2006-07-06 04:30:41 · 14 answers · asked by ELDreamer81 2 in Friends

2006-07-06 04:30:41 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce