how come i met a girl that is outgoing only on the phone and not in person? Does she like me or not?

Answer 1

she's shy and finds it easier to be open when not face to face... just do what you can to make her feel at ease when you're together.

Answer 2

Are you writing all this down? I think there are some very good ideas here. As far as being outgoing on the phone and whether she likes you or not, I think she does. I had a fellow who would talk for hours with me on the phone, but when I got around him, he would just clam up. He seemed to feel safer hiding behind the phone. He didn't seem to know what to say or do. Plan to go out and do some activities. If it is a financial issue, then plan a star-gazer expedition. Look up constellation maps, then try to identify them with her. If you are feeling particularly romantic, tell her that one of them should be named after her. Then tell her why. Go on a walk around a neighbourhood, stop and look at flowers. Smell them and admire the work it took to get them looking so lovely. Go on a bike ride, pack a couple of sandwiches and take her to a park for a picnic. (For heaven's sake, don't pack anything smelly, though.) Plan them and go out even if she says no. When you get back, it will give you something new to talk about to her. Especially if you tell her that you thought about her when you looked up at these stars and saw this one that was twinkling so bright among the rest. Let her know that she stands out among the rest.
You have to get off the phone, though. Nothing was ever accomplished over the phone that couldn't be better done in person. This is important. You could really lose out on a relationship if you are both too comfortable with distance. It gets way too easy to just sit there and talk. You need to do.

Answer 3

She may be shy or there may be other signals you two are sending that confuse or put her off.

Remember that you are isolated on the phone. She cannot see your body language nor can see smell you. Oh, you say, that is bogus! Not necessarily. Women can detect scent that men cannot; just like they can detect colors that we cannot.

Much of sexual pairing is biochemical. You may not be able to do much about that. However, make sure you are very clean and that goes for clothes and underwear. She may not even be aware of being put off but it may be it.

Also you may be invading her space (that undefined area around her body) too rapidly. If she has been abused (and way too many women have been) she may have issues centering around physical contact. Move in slowly.

Now then, cats and women chase what moves away. When you are in person with her, look at her and look away. Move toward her and then turn to the side. Touch her hand but then take the touch away. It used to be called flirting. It works. Even if she were hot for you before, she will find it much more exciting.

Yes, she is shy. She should be. I doubt that you want to switch places. Women have enormous amounts of violence done to them everyday. They catch the veneral diseases that lead to cancer (thankfully now there is a vaccine against HPV), they get to get pregnant, they get their reputations ruined (while the guy becomes a stud the girl gets called a slvt). So treat her like a lady in the parlor. She will be a grateful and enthusiastic lover when she can trust you in bed.

Answer 4

I think she likes you and feels comfortable on the phone. When you are in person do you smile? Sometimes when people are nervous they do not have a smile on their face and it is uncontrollable. Other people smile constantly uncontrollably. Every person is different. One of my friends and I get along wonderfully over the phone or chatting on IM. But, when he comes to visit he just sits there with hardly any facial expressions. He won't look at me and it's very difficult to have a conversation with him. It never goes well. He has explained to me that he has anxiety and it's difficult for him to talk with me face to face. If I wasn't going through this I would think he was a weirdo. But, he's not. Maybe that's what she's going through.

Answer 5

There's no way to tell if she likes you or not. She's probably just shy and it's a lot easier to talk on someone the phone than in person. Make a date with her if she says not then she probably doesn't like you...Good Luck

Answer 6

on the phone she probably feel a sense of safety, and feels she has the freedom to say what she feels. But in person she can see you're every emotion, your eyes and your smile. She probably likes you. and is scared whether you like her at all.!!If someone doesn't they usually can talk in person and NOT on the phone. So my advice is that you invite her to hangout more often, and try to initiate more conversations like on the phone, show her you're interested. By doing this it show her she is not the only one vulnerable!

Answer 7

on the phone people can be themselves more because they are not face to face with someone. a lot of people are shy in person...give the girl a break she is probably really shy and talking on the phone is less intiminating! So she probably does like you if she is claming up in front of you!! SCORE!

Answer 8

She's just shy, it's a lot easier to talk to someone on the phone than it is personally. Cut her some slack, she'll relax eventually.

Answer 9

The more you hang out with her the more she'll become that person you met on the phone. People tend to be that way....I know I am.

Answer 10

are you serious people can be whoever they want to be behind the screen, on the phone, that is why it is better to get out and meet people in public that way you get to see how they really interact and one date is never enough you need 2or 3 to c a real personality

Answer 11

she's probably shy. It's easier for some people to talk to someone on the phone than having to meet face to face.
if you want to know if she likes you ask her.