Is there such a thing as everlasting love. Are we meant to team up for life?

Answer 1

Absolutely it exists although most of us do not put in the effort to find it and sustain it. It doesn't happen on its own but needs some nurturing.

What is the most important thing in your life? After giving it some thought, you'll probably agree that the most important thing in life is the feeling of love inside and around you. If you feel the flow of love in your life, you have a springboard to miracles under your feet with every step. If you don't feel the flow of love, you could be a billionaire and feel like a pauper. Without love, you could be a movie star and not be able to look at your face in the mirror.

The Key Discovery
In 9 out of 10 long-term relationships, vital energy slowly drains away because of problems in five specific areas. Even if the couple's surface conflict concerns sex or money, the real source of the problem is usually rooted in at least one of these five issues:

# Commitment

# Emotional transparency

# Sharing responsibility

# Creative individuation

# Appreciation


If you address these problems with 5 simple techniques, you can generate passion and harmony, even if those qualities have been absent for years.

If it did not exist then how would you like this scenario? Your lover comes up to you and says "Since there is nothing like everlasting love, i decide to love you for the next 6 months after which i will go and love someone else." What will be your reaction?

Answer 2

Love doesn't last on its own. It lasts only when people are committed to making it last and put some effort into making sure that it does last.

If leave your love to fate without taking any responsibility for it, then such love definitely will not last forever. A time will come when it will end.

And if you don't mean to team up for life and you don't make sure that it does last for life, there isn't anyone else who will mean it for you and make sure that it does happen for you.

The kind of love you have and how long it lasts depends competely on how you and your partner choose to treat each other in your relationship.

Answer 3

My opinion? I'm not sure any more. My parents were married over 40 years until my Dad died. My Mom won't even think about another man and it's been 17 years since my Dad passed. I think that is everlasting love. Are we meant to 'team up for life'? I don't think anyone can answer that question and I wish someone could....

Answer 4

Yes and yes. But just be aware of the meaning of the word love. It's current definition is something along the lines of "how I feel right now", lust or a chemical attraction. When love and marriage and lifetime commitment were created love meant so much more. Perhaps it began as attraction and feeling, but it became so much more. Commitment, honesty, trust, security, serving each other. Love is commiting to stay with someone until death no matter what happens. No matter how you change, no matter how you feel, no matter money or health or troubles. It means exactly what the wedding vows say.
Love
Honor
Cherish
In sickness and in health
Till death do us part
This is my solomn vow
And only in that security, can true love begin.

Answer 5

Yes, but you have to be willing to wait for it. I almost gave up, but now I finally know what unconditional, everlasting love is. It's when you are best friends in addition to being great lovers. It's when you are crazy about each other even though you know all the not-so-nice things about each other. I always dreaded growing old, but now I actually look forward to it, because I have a soul mate to grow old with.

Answer 6

Hi, Yes I think so! The kind of love you're talking about is marriage. I have neighbors who were married for over 50 years untill she died. When you love each other enough to marry- then you have to commit to making love the foundation of your relationship...because every relationship will be tested...you have to choose everyday to make love stronger than anything that will try to come between you & your partner....hope you find everlasting love!

Answer 7

I Don"t think So ,I Think We Will Eventually Wined Up With Some For Life . I Don" No About You About You But My Life Is Half Over ,And Tectonically I'm Still Married And I Haven" Fond Them Yet!!

Answer 8

I have honestly known a couple who stayed together in amazing love for life. In fact He died and then she died a week later. I am sure it was from a broken heart. I never met a couple more suited to each other. Married 68 years. Just being around them could make you feel warm inside. Watching a 75 year old man pat his wife's butt lovingly as they walked into the store, it is inspiring. I truly believe they were true to each other for life. I believe that it exists, but it has to be nurtured and cared for to keep it that way.

Answer 9

There is no 'meant'. Some people's relationships last throughout their lives, others change as people and move on to different relationships. Others still marry for the wrong reasons, or too young and end up realizing it only after years have gone by.

It's different for everybody, there is no single truth on this subject.

Answer 10

I think there is. You need to consider all of the important factors. Simple differences can be lived with. Lifestyle differences can cause roadblocks. If you are in love with someone who has similar values and they you, you can team up for life and never regret it.