My boyfriend lies about past relationships and things that are going on still today with past relationshjips and his finances. Then when he gets caught he still denies it and tells me I'm crazy.
2006-07-06 04:34:47 · 35 answers · asked by Kelleigh H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men don't lie....boy's do.
Pick your mate better.
2006-07-06 04:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by ~Gate~ 5 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Any man that tells you that you are crazy in a negative manner is worth leaving.
If you are so crazy then why is he still with you?
If I found out the man I am dating was crazy, I would leave his crazy a**.
You need to keep your sanity by leaving him.
His actions speak for themselves just as yours do.
If he tells you you are crazy and you haven't done anything but think logically on behalf of noticing his actions....than he is simply trying to drive you insane.
Save your money, don't give him any.
If he's caught in the past, don't get caught and pulled with him.
Don't try to catch him lying.
Don't try to bring him back into the future.
He wants you to try and do these things so he can turn it over on you and call you crazy.
LEAVE HIM.
Be a happy woman and treat yourself to a steak dinner that feeds your mind and body.....NOT a hot dog made out of miscellaneous livers and guts.
2006-07-06 04:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like he needs a good therapist to help him with his issues, and he DOES HAVE ISSUES.
I would run the other way. What you see is what you get. He will ALWAYS be a liar. Don't try to figure it out. His behavior could be what he was taught by his family or it could be the way he interpreted things in his life. He sounds like an ex-boyfriend of mine that has some big issues. Your boyfriend sounds damaged and is playing some major headgames! Lying and then telling you that you are the one who is crazy. I know his type well! RUN!!!!
2006-07-06 04:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by denise m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People lie (men and women)...we don't like to admit our faults, we don't like to be caught trying to pull the wool over someone's eyes, and we don't like being told we're wrong...
It's easier to deny something, than to admit we're wrong, apologize, and/or attempt to correct it...that takes maturity and a certain amount of compassion for how other's feel (knowing that being lied to, probably makes the person feel bad)...
If this guy lies so much...and then calls you crazy, why're you still with him? Dump his sorry tochis and move on...
2006-07-06 04:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the question should be, why do you stick around with a proven liar? If he lies about everything, how do you know he's truthful? And really, do you want to be with a guy who can't keep it together enough with his finances that he has to lie about them. Yuck. C'mon girl...you can do MUCH better than that!
2006-07-06 04:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS WORLD IS A SCHOOL WE ARE ALL HERE TO LEARN AND SOME ANSWERS WE ASK WE WILL NEVER GET THE RIGHT ANSWERS FOR .
THE QUESTIONS YOU ASK HAS MILLIONS OF ANSWERS BUT HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN TRUTHFULLY ANSWER YOU .AND THEN YOU ARE THE ONE WHO WILL HAVE TO DECIDE IF IT MAKES SENSE.
BUT I CAN TELL YOU THIS HE IS THE CRAZY ONE BECAUSE EACH TIME HE LIES YOU FIND OUT BUT THEN HE KEEPS DOING IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN SO WHO IS THE CRAZY ONE ?
BUT IN CLOSING IF YOU KEEP ALLOWING HIM TO TAKE ADVANTAGE AND LIE TO YOU YOU WILL START TO BELIEVE HIM THAT YOU ARE REALLY CRAZY
2006-07-06 04:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, girl, that is very similar to the question I posted a couple days ago. Even if you catch them red-handed (which I did), they will STILL lie and deny and say "you don't trust me, blah blah blah". I feel your frustration-mine still won't admit it and I saw it with my own eyes. They are so aggravating!
2006-07-06 04:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men can not admit when they are wrong. Tell him if he continues to lie, you will leave...tell him the basis for any good relationship is trust & if you can't trust him, then you have no leg to stand on!
2006-07-06 04:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by itsjustchris1968 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some of them lie not all,but they say you are crazy to get out of the conversation.
2006-07-06 04:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by Sophia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men are under the impression that if they tell u the truth u will be mad at them for something harmless because some women do get mad at u no matter what u say. but u mite want to watch him if he denighs it after the fact he mite be doing something
2006-07-06 04:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by mountianbiker_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definition of insanity: Repeating the same steps getting the same result but expecting something different each time.
You are crazy.
2006-07-06 04:38:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋