2006-07-06 04:34:27 · 15 answers · asked by Dusky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We are living together. The emails happened on 2 separate evenings when we were apart. He says he has not spoken to her on cam or messenger, only via email.
He says it "means nothing" to him but I feel like he's cheated on me.
2006-07-06 04:42:12 · update #1
The question is whether or not YOU feel like it's cheating, not whether or not WE do. If YOU feel betrayed, that's what's important and you need to have a discussion with him about it.
2006-07-06 04:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the same situation and personally I felt it was cheating also, but men seem to think it is only cheating if their private parts come into contact with a female, and ala Bill Clinton, sometimes they still don't think it is cheating unless it involved sexual intercourse with penetration. But I tell you one thing; if the tables were turned and you were e-mailing a guy things of a sexual nature, I will bet he would consider that cheating!
2006-07-06 05:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To guys this isnt cheating... first of all when talking to aomeone online for sexual reasons you are playing a role in a fantasy... it's no different than watching a porn, or reading playboy.... and wether or not you know it, when you are gone, the guys takin care of buisness one way or another...
2006-07-06 04:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Reverand Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think its cheating why is he having sexual conversation with someone online when he has a woman?? Be careful
2006-07-06 04:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definately cheating! IF he was happy with you - why go out looking for someone else? Think of it this way...WHY did he? It's obvious that he went looking for someone else - he is cheating!
2006-07-06 04:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is cheating. And it would not do much for your self esteem nor your security of his love. Obviously you are hurting, or you would not be asking. Does he respect that?
2006-07-06 04:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by roo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is cheating. if my girlfriend did that id question if she was really in love with me, and it would take something special for her to regain my trust. just watch out, if youre not all he ever needs i dont think itll work.
2006-07-06 04:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by SpankmasterFlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe so.Imagine you do the same thing.Will be happy to hear that?My advice is be careful,if he cant be sincere to youthen itd no worth wasting your time.You deserve better than that,dear!!!
2006-07-06 04:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by dev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes especially if he had an orgasm over the web cam
2006-07-06 04:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by paki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, there are no web cam boys, I think.
2006-07-06 04:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by Electric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋