Well last wednesday he call me and we started fighting and he said all this mean stuff but their is something that I'm concern about he said I don't care about your life I don't care about anyones life I care abou't my life,and he said you have something that I Don't have I'm like what and he said a family.
2006-07-06 04:35:40 · 22 answers · asked by Yeny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he only cares about himself at this point. You can't help him with that. I think that you need to take care of yourself, and find someone who cares about you.
2006-07-06 04:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend has a lot of issues that need to be resolved before he can have a relationship. Not caring about his life is not a good thing. If he's not in some kind of counseling he shoul be. It sounds like he doesn't have any family...if he lives with an adult try talking to them about what he said and mention counseling. If you can talk to a priest or get him to talk to one that would be very helpful. Tell your parents about your conversation and ask for their help also. They may be able to point you and him in the right direction. Good luck to you and your boyfriend.
2006-07-06 11:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well right now he is actin like he only cares about his self but that last part the family. Maybe you have something that he wants but never had. I believe that he just wants a family to care about him be the missing part of his life and you can provide that for him.
2006-07-06 11:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you have to break up with your boyfriend if you can think of three really good reasons why the relationship isn't working out. No, not reasons like idiotic nervous habits he does, but things like he's started hiding more things from you, or he's stopped kiss you as much as he used to, or the sparks in the relationship have seen to die down.
2006-07-06 11:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Evelyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is a very scary situation that you have to take very carefully I know that the boyfriend has many issues
and the first sounds like abandonment...he may have been in a family where he was unwanted/rejected and at this point it sounds like he needs therapy to resolve his issues of anger this is a very scary situation for you because he can turn that anger on himself ie suicide or on you I don`t know how old you are but heres my suggestion be his friend he does need your friendship but state that you`ll be there for him if he gets help also for safetys sake tell someone you can trust your situation and if thats a police officer do that they need to know in case this gets outta hand but say that you want to be helpful not get them involved to freak him out and ask if they can direct you to getting help for him
2006-07-06 11:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if ya'll make up then you have to make sure that no arguments will happen, then if they do you break up. I don't mean the occoaisonal spat i mean ARGUING. If he said th@ then i would break up. But the best thing u can do is be there for him right now.
2006-07-06 11:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you realize that he doesnt care about your feelings anymore and learn that u are not happy. the way i see it if your boyfriend cant see that u are miserable or that something is lacking then i suggest that u look for someone else that would care about how u feel, its important in a relationship.
2006-07-06 11:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by callioperosa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a charmer. Sure wish my guy was hystrionic like that.
By the way, I only brake with cars, although I brake for animals.
2006-07-06 11:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah... that sounds really messed up. If all he cares about is himself, then he does not know what it means to be in a relationship.
2006-07-06 11:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by partydudette52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's wow well if he said mean thing to you maybe because you have a family and he doesn't and he just wants one and that's why he was being mean or he just doesn't like you any more but you should try to talk to him
2006-07-06 11:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by i love him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋