Family & Relationships - 5 July 2006

2006-07-05 17:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I divorced her dad when she was 11 mo old, so she really never lived with him or knew him well. When she was about 10 yrs old she told a big lie which nearly landed me in jail, a huge legal mess came out of it and I spent thousands on attorneys. To make a long story short. she lived with him for about 4 yrs. Her big brother stayed with me. I was reluctant, but I allowed her to move back home to live about 4 yrs ago and deeply and honestly, its been a mess. She manipulates and lies. I have spent more than I could afford on counseling for her and I am just heartbroken. She is 18 now and I see so much of her dad in her it makes me sick. She just graduated high school & has no job, no car, no money, no nothing. She lives with a guy who has no teeth, a little girl and no ambition. He is so much like my daughters dad its crazy.
I havent spoken to her because she has no phone and it makes me sick to see her wasting her life. For my sanity, I need to cut her off for now. Suggestions?

2006-07-05 17:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've know my friend bill for 6 months. He is 32 and I'm 21.We meet at our work. well we've hung out almost everyday for about a month. Here is the problem on sunday I slept with him & slept over at his house. He droped me off at work and walked me to my work. My coworker and close friend of 13 years saw my hickey & asked me if I slept with bill. I denied it a first then she keep asking me and I finally told her the truth. well bill found out and got all pissed off at me. He told I saw stupid for telling her that we slept toghter. I really like this guy and I don't know what to do? should I apolgze to him for telling her the truth or what? I also I want to be more than friends with him and I don't know how to tell him I a kinda nervous. I really have fallen for him I don't know what to do I almost said I love you to him tonight. Any advice would be apperciated?

Thank you
Liz

2006-07-05 17:23:04 · 8 answers · asked by lovelyaquariusfairy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-05 17:22:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lost trust with one of my best friends after she went out with my ex after we've been broken up for just 2 weeks. She was the one that helped us with all of our problems. My other friends say she liked him all along and that she was planning for us to break up so she could go out with him. I already know I hate him. But, should i be mad at her also??

2006-07-05 17:22:06 · 12 answers · asked by La_Di_Da 2 in Friends

Oh yeah, because you do not have a mom who looks like Beyonce and you do not look good in underwear. By the way, my other sn is Underwear Model. Give me your feedback on my modesty.

2006-07-05 17:20:56 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bored at work....

2006-07-05 17:19:46 · 6 answers · asked by missy 1 in Singles & Dating

okay...this is too much for me...but I love him and I am trying to deal with this. He has an ex wife who he has paid the mortgage on for the last 8 years. Last year, when we were separated, he bought a house with a GF and now has that mortgage to pay for....they split up when she realized he still loved me...He is now trying to sell the house of the ex wife to pay off part of the loan he made when he bought the new house....He has one more month to sell the old house....and has been spending all of his time trying to repair it to sell. I feel neglected and also, somewhat angry, that he bought this new house with the "old" girlfriend. It is also one house away from where his parents live, who also are raising his two children. I live in a very nice area and own my home. I don't see myself ever moving into the house he has recently bought. Whoever renuvated the place did a horrible job, besides the fact that he used the other gf to buy it with......what are your thoughts.

2006-07-05 17:17:34 · 27 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a lil brother and hes like 3 he so smart and just so cute even i think so he has dark blue eyes like a blue ocean and and beautiful hair and is in that stage where he repeats everything and its like everthing is focused on him i crave for attention but never get it i feel like i did something or everthing wrong i couldnt figure it out for a long time sometimes i just want to say the hell with it and run away to my mom who loves me and i can talk to becuz i am her fav i know thats a lil mean to my other lil bro that lives with my real mom but gosh idk i never get attention i should get a lil and then at my dads im always being compared to chris my step-brother the great im pissed now that i think about it what should i do

2006-07-05 17:17:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok i have a guy friend who has been my good friend for a long time and i think he wants to be more but i dont want to lose a very good friend ship what should i do?

2006-07-05 17:17:32 · 16 answers · asked by froggirl6767 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyone has some sort of fault, just wondering why some can't take what they dish out?

2006-07-05 17:16:18 · 6 answers · asked by thommazac 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfirend needs help he is a pathalogical lier and he want me to help him stop lieing b\c it is really hurting our relathionship. what can i do to help him?

2006-07-05 17:15:51 · 22 answers · asked by playboibunni6915 1 in Friends

Just got married and I want to keep my maiden name. do I put a dash between my maiden name and my new lastname?

2006-07-05 17:14:19 · 5 answers · asked by keziah 3 in Family

We have Christian values but are not too conservative. We would like our children to grow up in a community that accepts everyone for who they are, but still lives by their own values.

2006-07-05 17:13:35 · 19 answers · asked by Jay E 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

"I'm sorry but I can't date you because I can only see you as a friend".....was what I'm planning to say but, that's so HARSH! Is there a nicer way to put it? He's my best bud so I really want us to still be able to remain as friends and things will go normally after i turn him down.

(Giving him a chance is slightly impossible due to certain reasons)

2006-07-05 17:13:23 · 11 answers · asked by dark_flonne 2 in Singles & Dating

I am interested in meeting good guys, but I don't want to meet weirdos. Usually it's not a good sign to meet strangers, that might meen that you are easy. But i am really not, I just want to hang out with good men.
in portland, beaverton, hillboro, oregon

2006-07-05 17:12:28 · 6 answers · asked by You're giving it all away! 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering how many married people do not sleep together. Just the physcal act of sleeping together in eather a different room or a different bed and why?

2006-07-05 17:11:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-07-05 17:11:37 · 105 answers · asked by Ann Douglas 1 in Family

I been with my husband for about 10 years and help him raise his daughter. I watched her grow into a young lady. She was raised by her dad and me, while her mother moved on with her life and new family. Now that my step-daughter is grown, her and her mother is pretty close. She tells her mother everything about her dad. How well he's doing and all. For some odd reason, I felt like a fool. After all these years with this child, she always respected me but i don't have any kids but her. She never gave me nothing for a birthday, mother's day but sometimes on christmas. I give and gave this child so much support and money threw out these years, now i feel like a dam fool!!. Everyone got something even her mother that never gave, gets something not me. Should i mention this to my husband or keep asking god to reveal more to me?!

2006-07-05 17:11:16 · 8 answers · asked by FOXXTAIL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm trying to plan an incredible night of sex for my bf for his birthday and i want some new ideas

2006-07-05 17:11:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-05 17:11:00 · 2 answers · asked by lavatts 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-05 17:10:40 · 4 answers · asked by amber_onay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean when a ex tells u that she loves u soo much, but doesnt want to be with u cause she's not in love with u? too me it seems to be almost the same thing. what do yall think?

2006-07-05 17:10:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have any married women here ever had an affair? How did it start, why did you do it, how did he find out and what was the end result?

2006-07-05 17:09:49 · 8 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex bf spent the night on the couch because it was late after the holiday. I have two previous kids ages 9 an 12 and then his child who is 3. They were all in bed. I awoke about an hour later to find him standing in my older daughters room. I feared for everything that moment. I asked what he was doing and he told me he thought he heard his daughter whimpering so he got up to find her.He said he didnt know if she was or if it was the storm. He knew where I was headed with the questions and he knows my childhood w/molesters and that wasn't what was going on. I also told him that his daughter was sleeping with me prior to bedtime. We lived with him for several years and have known him for four years. Nothing like this has happend before. We're great friends and I really don't know what to do. I spoke with my kids and the say noone has touched them. I wasn't specific about who. I don't want this to tear apart our relationship apart if nothing happend. What should I do? It was creepy!

2006-07-05 17:09:40 · 18 answers · asked by worriedmama 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey. I am 13 years old and I need to know the answer to this. and please, no smart-alek responses, this is serious. I often think about sex, I have made out with plenty of girls, and I masturbate frequently. Is this normal for a person my age? I hit puberty 2 years ago and I have had protected sex twice. I have also had anal sex 4 times. All of the chicks I banged were pretty Fu**in' hot too. And the habit isn't exactly fresh, either.

2006-07-05 17:09:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-05 17:09:14 · 12 answers · asked by eloisa m 2 in Friends

I'm a 22 year old boy who likes to wear girl's panties bras and such when I have sex and sleep. My ex was fine with it, we dated for five years. we broke up for other reasons but I want to find a girl that is in to it or at least ok with it. not sure how to do that.

2006-07-05 17:09:11 · 3 answers · asked by Pink Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

brief summary: bf says he needs time to sort his life out, we rushed things too soon after his marriage breakup, he has assured me i am not a rebound, he still loves me but needs time out to sort himself out, he's such a kind sweet old fashined type of guy, and everyone was really stunned when they found out we broke up. everyones saying he will be back,that he just needs time .. he's still wearing the ring i gave him, he still calls me to see how im going, he asked me to along grocery shopping..lol still offers to do things around the house for me , we were living in seperate houses..This decision to break up with me was made as soon as he got back from visiting his family . People that know him feel that he is easliy led, he is very niave , anyways i dunno ,just want some hope in your opinions i suppose, im expecting him to never come back to protect myself.We both know where we went wrong. im so screwed over this,it's like waiting for an answer to see if we have a chance..

2006-07-05 17:08:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I notice that alot of men tend to cheat with women who are less attractive than their girlfriends. Is it because the other women provides something that their girlfriend doesn't, or is it because they can actually be on the down low with a female they would not normally date in public???????

2006-07-05 17:07:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce