I've know my friend bill for 6 months. He is 32 and I'm 21.We meet at our work. well we've hung out almost everyday for about a month. Here is the problem on sunday I slept with him & slept over at his house. He droped me off at work and walked me to my work. My coworker and close friend of 13 years saw my hickey & asked me if I slept with bill. I denied it a first then she keep asking me and I finally told her the truth. well bill found out and got all pissed off at me. He told I saw stupid for telling her that we slept toghter. I really like this guy and I don't know what to do? should I apolgze to him for telling her the truth or what? I also I want to be more than friends with him and I don't know how to tell him I a kinda nervous. I really have fallen for him I don't know what to do I almost said I love you to him tonight. Any advice would be apperciated?
Thank you
Liz
2006-07-05 17:23:04 · 8 answers · asked by lovelyaquariusfairy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't work with him I work in a restraunt inside the walmart he works at. I know I should have told him my feelings to him before I slept with him but I wasn't planning on sleeping with him either. I don't think it is a one nighter though cause he introduce me to his family. And asked me to hang out this thursday at his house. This was before he found out I blabed to my friend about us having sex. Which I would have not have said a thing if she did not notice my hickey and saw me walking in with him and kept on questioning me. This situation has gotten me really upset. I so wanna cry.
2006-07-05 17:57:02 · update #1
Sorry but you totally don't need this guy.If he got mad about that,who says he won't get mad about something else that small.He should understand that friends tell their friends stuff and should be happy that you have someone like that in your life.You might really like him but you really don't need him.You'll find someone else better eventually.
2006-07-05 17:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh. First, never date/sleep with anyone you work with. Never!!! Second, don't apologize for telling the truth. You are both adults. What do you have to be ashamed of? Hopefully the people you work with are mature enough to not really care about who slept with who. Third, You probably should have talked about the "I like you more than a friend" BEFORE you slept with him. Might as well put your cards on the table now and see where you stand before you get any deeper. Lastly, I hope it doesn't turn out where he's just using you or you'll see why it's so important not to get involved with people you work with!
2006-07-06 00:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, Move On!! It was a one night stand with an old man! (Considering the age difference). The whole thing sounds wrong. He's only mad that you said something because he is ashamed to admit it. Sorry, but it's true. Most guys brag when the hit a young broad. Don't waste your time, move on and find someone who is proud of you!!
2006-07-06 00:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 32 also,come over to my house liz and i wont get mad at what you tell, by the way, where you from?
2006-07-06 00:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not kiss and tell, that is the problem with most people.
2006-07-06 00:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i could tell u this let him be mad at u 4 now then wen he starts settlin down tell your sorry n then tell him how u feel
2006-07-06 00:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by gerbil514 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should he care who you tell ?if he has no wife or gf....there shouldent be a problem.
2006-07-06 00:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by purple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD APOLOGIZE, BUT YOU SHOULD FIND OUT IF WANTS MORE THAN JUST SEX WITH YOU.
2006-07-06 00:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by NUBIANPRINCESS07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋