i have a lil brother and hes like 3 he so smart and just so cute even i think so he has dark blue eyes like a blue ocean and and beautiful hair and is in that stage where he repeats everything and its like everthing is focused on him i crave for attention but never get it i feel like i did something or everthing wrong i couldnt figure it out for a long time sometimes i just want to say the hell with it and run away to my mom who loves me and i can talk to becuz i am her fav i know thats a lil mean to my other lil bro that lives with my real mom but gosh idk i never get attention i should get a lil and then at my dads im always being compared to chris my step-brother the great im pissed now that i think about it what should i do
2006-07-05 17:17:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
HEY CHELSEA IM NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE B/F AND THANX UNTAMMED LOL
2006-07-05 17:27:50 · update #1
omg thanx alot for understanding justmemimi i mean its not like i blame my lil brother i would give my life for him and yes i know it just feel so empty inside when my 2nd mom is always blowing me off cus of him my dad is always at work.and i think about calling my step-mom mom just to get closer but........
2006-07-05 17:39:47 · update #2
You know...I'm a Mom of a three year old - who just turned four...I say it that way, because toddlers don't just magically mature from one day to the next. I know what you mean...and I'm sure my son who is nine feels the same way, because it's just the nature of being a toddler- the need for attention...the repetitions. It's also because they are so tiny...- they feel they have to make themselves heard by crying and repeating themselves. I always tell my older son that he has to remember that when he was a toddler he had all my attention, too. Try to be strong, because believe it or not ...everyone else has their own agenda. Even a Mom wants to run away sometimes, but she has to be mature about it...running away wouldn't change anything. It will make you miserable and everyone else, too. Think of a way to distract yourself...start a hobby...where you can excel. Channel that craving for attention into something else...think about what your talents are...or what makes you forget negative thoughts. To me it was ballet. My ballet school made me feel so at home, because my teacher was wonderful.
I wish you all the best for your future.
2006-07-05 17:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. You need to let them know how you are feeling. When I was 7, my mom gave birth to a baby boy. I was so insecure and jealous because people would come over and see him and pay no attention to me. I eventually learned to be close with my brother to the point people would see him and they would see me with him. I think this is something that you eventually grow out of. Know that your brother might need some special attention right now while he is young. Do remind your dad of what you are feeling. Maybe you can suggest that you two go on a father daughter outing like out to dinner, to the movies or just have a friendly conversation over some ice cream.
2006-07-05 17:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me this happens all the time to siblings. I too have been there and I am watching it happening right now. This time to my younger sis and even younger sis . Its not worth fretting over. One day you will look back and laugh. How about getting a g/f b/f to give you some of that missing attention.
2006-07-05 17:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are jelous of all the attention your brother is getting. it is quite normal. you were the only one your parents loved before he came along. so you feel threatened.just try to remember how life was before your brother came. how lonely you were before you had this cute doll to play with.your little brother is helpless in this world. you have to protect him from all the evil of this world. you are going to be his guru.he is counting on you to help him with his life.so start acting like an elder sister and stop being a fool. you are all he has got.
2006-07-05 17:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop whining. your brother is only 3. he WILL grow. In the meantime, he needs the attention. He's still learning about the whole world and how he fits in it. take some time when you little brother's asleep and tell your folks how you feel. CALMLY.
2006-07-05 17:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds to me that you are acting childish. you brother has an excuse, hes 3...but you dont. i understand that we as human beings need attention, but when you're talking about running away it takes it to a whole different level. you should be happy that you are fortunate to have a family and people to turn to when you need them. i think you should talk to your mom instead.
good luck!
2006-07-05 17:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealously is a curse... no one is loving you less just cause of your lil bro... it's not his fault, maybe you are acting moody and grumpy, and thats why no one is paying much attention to you..You can't always be the centre of attention.
2006-07-05 17:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..good question. I say go to your mom and talk to her. Just say everything that you wrote down and let her know how you feel. I have a 12 year old and a 21 month old..now I know how my 12 year old feels!! Thanks gotta go talk to her!
2006-07-05 17:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by untamed1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you know it a few years will have passed and you will have a life outside of your family comparisons, they will want to spend time with you just when you want to do other things.. sux... im sorry
2006-07-05 17:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by smokingstonersweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try growing up, that'll probably help you.
2006-07-05 17:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by Brandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋