Everyone has some sort of fault, just wondering why some can't take what they dish out?
2006-07-05 17:16:18 · 6 answers · asked by thommazac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THAT IS A GREAT QUESTION,,
i have always been told that persons who criticize, and put people down need
to build themselves up, and they feel superior by doing this act,
when some people criticize, it is that the see a similar fault, or "defect" THAT they have in themselves,,
the same way when a person accuses you or someone of lying, cheating stealing or something,, is because they would be projecting what they would do in that situation,,
criticism, can be kind, or cruel, constructive criticism, (i always hated that expression ) BECAUSE IT IS SAID LIKE IT WAS A GIFT AND IT STILLL HURT.
Sometimes some people are just being honest and if the person is sensitve they take it as criticism,,
If someone shows me a better way of doing something, (a job, planting flowers,or handling something i am not experienced in,, it may not be criticism, but if they embarrace me, of i feel like they are putting me down, then i will think they are critical, when maybe, they had a valid point,
so to sum it up as i type this, i guess my opinion is in the delivery,, if you speak kindly, and in an appropriate manor, it would not be criticism, it is all in delivery,,...
ps please don't criticise my answer, it is meant kindly,,
2006-07-05 17:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey? Are you saying I can't take criticism? Well just look at yourself!! Who do you think you are! How dare you!
2006-07-05 17:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
these are usually insecure ppl. they criticize ppl to make them feel better, but they get mad once ppl criticize them back. these are the type off ppl who pisses everyone off.
2006-07-05 17:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Carley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people can take it because they are confident in themselves. other's just give critism because it gives them confidence and makes feel good about themselves by trying to break other people's confidence down.
2006-07-05 17:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think they are always right, no matter what.
2006-07-05 17:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by laurelbush28762 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some idiots think they are always right. @*%$
2006-07-05 17:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋