when you first met your wife, did you know you wanted to be with her forever? how soon did you bring up marriage? did you ever have doubts or or commitment phobia?
my boyfriend and i are getting pretty serious but he hasn't brought up marriage at all. he's the type of person who likes to live completely in the present and never want to worry about the future. he's an absolutely wonderful guy, the most caring, understanding, sweet, generous person and i think i'd like to be with him for a very long time. its hard to say FOREVER, but i can definitely see myself with him long enough for marriage to brought up. when we were talking about going over to his family's house for christmas i asked if i should get a gift for his parents because i knew they were getting me a gift and he said "no, that feels too weird, like we're married or something" i'm just wondering if other guys go through phases were they don't consider marriage at all. we're both in our 20's by the way.
2007-12-22
14:38:18
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Marriage & Divorce