We're in our late 40's and live together 1 1/2 yrs. Unbelievably, 2 months after I moved in, he stopped sex completely. He was having health problems, which were true. I said there are many ways to be close, but he didn't try or care how I was feeling. He just said he felt guilty. He rarely talks to me, respects my feelings, have fun, and refuses to seek help of any kind. He just says he hates himself. If I just sit on the couch with him and cook and take care of house, and don't 'hassle' him (which means talking about our 'stuff), (I am very easy to talk to and am very adept at communication), he will sit in silence with no response! Even when I say I will leave! He says it stresses him out too much to think about it. I feel like I am living with a ghost. After being rejected, I feel ugly and no one will want me. I was always confident/passionate with men and know I am a great partner, but now I feel horrible and wonder why I have put myself through so much pain and turmoil. Help!
2007-12-22
07:04:11
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