My husbands son and biologically mine as well, as embarassing as it is to say, knocked up his girlfriend. He is 19 she is 18. I kicked him out right when he told me (he is living with his uncle I think) and took in his ex girlfriend ( we made them break up!). I felt horrible that her parents kicked her out as well because you dont kick out a pregnant girl! Espically at her age.She is 5 months so unfortuntally its too late for an abortion in the eyes of god. Anyways my husband completly thinks im crazy and just does not get that we can not have this embarssment (his son), living in our home. We have already been completly cut off from our friends espically those at the country club, this can not go any further. We are looking for a private adoption agency to take the baby when its born. Both my husbands son as well as Katie (his ex girlfriend) want to keep it but we know that they have it all wrong and could never raise a child. My husbands son wants to take care of the child and says that he will never leave Katie, but I just know its not going to happen. Theres college and jobs and stuff. They are way too young and NOT EVEN MARRIED!!! School and his social life are supposed to be number one in my sons life right now! I have cut off my sons college tuition savings so he has to get a job to pay for it himself. Theres no money for a baby. Espically since we live in Beverly Hills and he is over at his uncles in Toronto. We are both educated parents who have great careers. My husband is a doctor and I am a lawyer. How could this have happened!? WHERE CHRISTIAN! He went to church and bible study every sunday and went to a PRIVATE CHRISTIAN SCHOOL!!! The biggest embarassment ever.
Also where can we find an adoption agency. One that will take the baby right when it is born. We dont want any of us to see it, espically Katie. She still thinks shes keeping it. But not as long as she is living under my roof. This child needs to heterosexual wealthy well educated parents. A big house in the subarbs with a dog. Not a small house in San Diego (where Katies parents live), with a electrician father and "home maker" mother.
I could never imagine what god is thinking of all this!
2007-12-01
19:17:42
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