We have been together for nearly 5 yrs, 2 happy kids together..She's 23, Im 28. I told her I wanted to wait to get married because when she turns 23 she will go through a phase where she doesnt want to be tied down.. exactly what's happening now. Sex is like once a month, I am understanding, honest, and have never cheated. I love my kids, and put my families needs before mine, but she says she is going crazy and cant take fighting, when she starts the fights?!? I want to go out and have fun too, but one child has medical needs, and getting a babysitter is not easy. I also went from making over $100K/yr to less than $40K after business crashed and lost everything, but working so hard to rebuild for my family. I never go out, and am always there for my family, andspend all my off time with them. She isnt superficial, so its not the lifestyle that is getting to her, its being with me and I can tell. I dont want live w/o my kids, and want to make it work. What to do??
2007-11-16
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