Brief summary...
Wife left me after a month of not knowing what she wanted, not knowing if she was in love with me. She recently came back saying that she loves me and wants to be with me. Before we got back together I told her i would not take a back seat to her friend. By the way, obviously we are married, and we have a kid. This friend of hers she has known for only 6 months. Anyway, since she has been back (a week) she continually shuts down not talking about how i feel, saying things like if i keep being annoying she will leave, that im controlling becuase i want to have a hold on how much she hangs out with her friend. She has a problem with being intimite with me, basically any type of contact at all. And the worst of it all was last night when i asked her if she had the choice, would she want to hang out with her friend everyday, she said maybe. I continued to ask where does that leave me. she said i dont know, it hasnt happened, that we'll cross bridge when it comes. help???
2007-11-15
01:38:57
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supremyecy
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Marriage & Divorce