My boyfriend of over 3 years and I had a discussion about where our relationship was going. After hearing about yet another couple getting engaged after just a year, I wanted to know how he felt about marriage and whether it featured in his plans for our future. He told me the concept scared him and he wouldn't be ready to get engaged to me for at least another few years. I was devastated, but I told him that there was nothing wrong with the way he felt it was just very upsetting for me. After a few days I decided if he was not ready to marry me, he could not be comfortable living with me and I asked him to move out. He got very upset and ended up shouting at me that if I had just been patient everything would be alright between us, because he had been planning all year to ask me at Christmas. Now, instead of buying me a ring, he's getting me a laptop. How do I get over yet more disappointment (I've had a lot in the past year) & more importantly, how do I make it up to him?
2007-11-12
01:50:37
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