Been married almost 20 years to the kind of man I had prayed for most of my life. He is kind, helpful, funny, smart, a wonderful dad and very good looking (added bonus). About 10 years into marriage things just went wrong. I developed a severe crush on a man who was into me. Consequently, we formed a friendship with benefits that involved a couple of kisses (no sex). Sometime in the next year while out of town I encountered 2 men who were close to our family and I proceeded to have sex with one and just kissed the other one. Why on earth would I do something like this to the man I swore in front of God and many people that I would love and cherish forever, for better or worse? A few months ago I engaged in flirty conversations with 2 guys from my work. I have made a full confession to my husband, who claims that he’s suspected my infidelity all along.
Why have I done this? I’m optimistic that we can work it out, and he will accompany me to counseling.
2007-11-09
10:57:05
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