Throughout our relationship, his mom has been very controlling: treating us like children, calling and coming over all time, wanting to pay for things, getting upset when we didnt participate in family events, etc. Then everything got worse the day we first told them we were moving out of state, they went balistic and said a lot of disrespectful things to me b/c it was for my job, but he chosen to come with me. I have not spoken to his mother since that day, which was 2 yrs ago. Through this time, my boyfriend's relationship has deteriorated w/his family too. They barely talk on phone and when they do they start fighting. His family asked to come visit us and we refused b/c his mother wants to act like nothing ever happened without confronting the issue or apologizing to me. We our going visit our home state soon (my fam still lives there too) and I know if I try and sit down and talk with her, she wont want to talk about it and things will escalate. What should I do?
2007-11-07
04:15:48
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ddok
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