Okay, I'm curious. In our church, we are encouraged to get married in the temple as soon as possible and have our families.. Of course, within the bounds of love and respect, we sure aren't supposed to get married to the first returned missionary with a libido. Okay, so let's say I'm in love with this guy, and he's on a mission, and won't be back for one year, four months and 12 days. (lol. See, I'm completely objective here.) Lets say we dated in high school and broke up cause dating in high school doesn't make sense when he's just gonna leave. Its been four and a half years, and I still have feelings for him, so i want to see if there's anything to it when he gets back. I don't want anything serious, so I date casually for a while, waiting for him to come home. I don't mind, and I will change my mind if neccessary. Does the church frown on this? Should I be looking to get serious, or is it okay to wait for him? Lets say I wouldn't even ask if I wasn't sure he felt the same.
2007-10-01
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