it wouldnt matter but we're both girls shes bi and im not what should i say to her ? btw shes not messin round.
2007-10-01 08:09:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her know you are quite flattered ... but you are not interested in changing your relationship ... and maybe even go into how you are attracted to men only ... she's always going to have a crush - so it might not change the way she feels about you ... but at least both of you know where you stand ... good luck ... !
2007-10-01 08:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested, move forward at the pace you allow. If you are not, tell her you are flattered, but not interested. The fact that you are posting this makes me think you want to know if it's okay to explore this avenue. Is she cool but too promiscuous? If so, it might be opening pandera's box, becuae you will loose the friendship when it goes south. Don't tease her, because it will only be encouragement that she'll take as bait. Be clear with what you want out of it, and procede that way. Sexuality can infect a plutonic relationship, but shouldn't matter if you don't really start anything.
If she's a good friend, she'll stay a good friend even without the sexuality.
2007-10-01 08:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great stuff !
life is full of experiences.
You might want to "test" what is the taste of it with somebody trustful.
If no... no harm. She's not knocking the door hard enough yet !!
2007-10-01 08:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arent into her or girls like that I would sit down and talk to her......it would be really uncomfortable I know but if you are not into her THAT way tell her you guys just want to be friends.......
let her down easy and don't hurt her feelings......
another Q are you Aussie?
2007-10-01 08:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by ilovemissduff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her down gently. Just let her know that you two are both friends and you wouldn't want anything to change and that you are very happy where your relationship is now.
2007-10-01 08:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely it relies upon on if he's bisexual or no longer. if he's then if i've got been you i could tell him how i felt approximately him. yet whilst he's no longer i could save it to myself because would probable in simple terms make it uncomfortable for the two considered one of you.
2016-10-20 12:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't know if it's true or not, do you. I'd say leave it alone unless she hits on you, and then just tell her you're not interested.
2007-10-01 08:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what you are saying--if she is your mate-------she should fancy you.....maybe I am not getting the picture right.
2007-10-01 08:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by lorr1941 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no. That is of course you want to say yes. Then just say yes!
2007-10-01 08:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by tamarack58 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, if your not bi or a lesbian don't try it if you don't want to be, 'cause you will like it.
2007-10-01 08:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by nunya b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋