Today we were visiting with my hubbys brother and his bro could possibly be going on a trip to Africa... like a business trip. He would be gone for possibly 4 to 6 wks. My husband looked at me and said in sortof a joking manner, hey, I asked him about how much money they paid for supervisors there, and so I maybe going too. I joked back with him about it, and asked him later if he was serious. He said he had asked about the pay,but he said nothing about whether or not he was serious about the trip. Now, here's the deal. I am perfectly fine with the idea that people go on business trips that take them far away. My issue is how he acted like he was gloating about it..almost like haha, I may leave you and the kids and go there. If he had just mentioned it without that haha tone, it wouldn't bother me. It is 1 thing to say you may go, but another to gloat about it in my opinion. Do I ask him more about it since tomorrow is our anniversary? I feel hurt that he said it that way. Thanks.
2007-09-22
14:37:23
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ShineOn
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Marriage & Divorce