In a very successfull marriage, 3 kids, great job, great friends, money in the bank, strong love between the both of us.... lots of hugging, kissing, sez blah blah. Ever since I had some friends come in I haven't seen in 15 years I have felt like I have reverted back to the way I was 15 years ago, very insecure..... This is not how I have been at all in the last few years, but now insecurity has readred its ugly head. On top of that, my wife is back to a personal trainer and looking good, my 1st born is going into 3 day a week full day pre school. My 2nd born was just diagnosed with autism so he will be heading into a 5 day a week all day pre school program.
On top of that my wife has been seeing a shrink and her self esteem has gone way up. All of the sudden I am feeling not as important to her, and feeling insecure. Last night I told her and now I think she sees me as weak.
What can I do to get out of this funk? How does she view me now?
2007-08-28
22:35:28
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