How can i date a policeman?

Question

I am wondering if there are any policemen that chat in yahoo that i could possible date? 43 single and looking

Answer 1

As a female officer I can tell you most of the guys I hang out with at work do not spend a lot of time on the computer when they get home. Those who are single hang out with the other single ones and occassionally us married ones. If you want to meet an officer try volunteering at the police department nearby. Departments are always in need of volunteers for all sorts of tasks. You can spend a few free hours with something to do, and meet the officers while getting to know them. In general though, officers do not make the best of mates. It is not because we go home and beat our spouses either. It is because we work in a high-stressed negative environment that can cause us to become very jaded towards the world. When all you see is drugs, abuse, violence, and innocent victims it can get to a person. We are humans like everyone else (despite what people believe), and we got in this occupation to try and make a difference. The military get support for fighting in foreign countries for our freedom, but the police fight in your very neighborhhod to uphold the rights we have and get no support. Most officers I know refuse to eat doughnuts while on duty and will only go for coffee due to the stigmas set on us. So don't go that route. It is sure to be a complete turn-off. However, we do love cookies! Or at least my department does! Good luck in your search. Beware, most of us are already married, and many have or will be in a divorce.

Answer 2

Why would you want that?

Well, with all the benefits, paid training and expenses, free K9, all the overtime he wants to put in at time and a half, a free cruiser to drive at will running on free gas, nice salary increases and protection from Internal Affairs from citizen complaints, yes, you got yourself a great candidate that may be taken any time leaving you a nice, surviving spouse allowance.

Just be ready when he had a slow day at work and comes back home pumped up with adrenalin, taking the beating out on you instead...

Answer 3

Be patient in looking for this kind of man. I met some policeman in the yahoo chat. But I am not serious about them, so just be patient in looking for them.

Answer 4

That is some funny **** there. You got the police officer syndrome huh? I can relate to it. I had it years ago and got my fix for life. Ive had three of them during that time and it isn't all it's cracked up to be. The best part of dating a cop is to watch him put on his uniform. Taking that uniform off is the risk you have to face when you date a cop. never knowing what is under that masculine uniform. it could be the worst visual you may ever encounter. i have had it happen. also all of them had little tiny weinie's and i couldn't help but to wonder if that may have had any influence on them becoming a cop. You know that ego thing cops usually have with a chip on their shoulder as well. Most often cops are the kids in grade school who got their milk money taken from them by a bully then grow up thinking that being a cop would resolve the milk money issue. This only creates a full fledged egotistical prick wearing a badge with a calcium defeciency.
Officers are hard to flirt with because any time you are around a cop it is usually because they are giving you a ticket. Not the time to come on to a cop, they just think you are trying to seduce them out of giving you a ticket, at that point they got the power to make you feel exactly the opposite of what you wanted to feel.
My advice is to put yourself in situations where cops are always at or meet at during lunch. kind of puts you in a position of stalking them, huh? got to do what you got to do to get a hold of what you want. Put your balls between your legs and just do it. Ask them if they are marrried and if not if they would be interested in a date? If they say no wait for next one to walk in. They are just cops one will do just fine like the next. Might as well indulge and be straight forward by asking them out. because no sooner than when you get a hold of one you will be wishing you never got a hold of it. if you enjoy being on observation at all times as if you were a suspect and like to talk to someone who always responds in a way as if he is undercover and on a survellence call, then have at it. they do not laugh to much and take everything seriously. now if you want some fun with dating a cop, find the supreme assholes of cops, seduce him then f...k with him like he does everyone else. now that's fun!
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Answer 5

My husband is a police officer, we met in the police academy, and you should go volunteer, then you get to see all the officers.

Answer 6

go to the chat rooms and look. they have law enforcement rooms and singles rooms for your area/state
and you can find out the bars/hang outs where officers in your area frequent and start going there too

Answer 7

Try wearing a tight skirt and going to all the donut shops in your city or town, that should work lol great political question by the way

Answer 8

You can find any policeman that will date you - married or otherwise. They are NOT good candidates. Look elsewhere, you can do better.

Answer 9

just enjoy, I have dated a few in my time, including one in London whose name was Michael Finn, [Micky Finn] he was great, also dated one in Sydney , his name was Ray and he was also great, don't let the profession lead you in the wrong path, coppers are the same as other people with the exception of their very demanding job
Enjoy

Answer 10

Sorry honey, too old to start looking for a 4th wife. . ., think I'll stick with #3, she's working out pretty good.