Okay, I have a job and am perfectly capable and willing to work and support myself. My problem is, my boyfriend works for himself (he will Never get a 'real job', doesn't believe in working for someone else) and mades very little; sometimes he makes no money at all. The nature of his business is extremely unstable. He can support his very spare batchelor lifestyle. The issue is, he now wants for us to move in together, with the idea that we will get married in the future.
I am desperately in love with this person, but I am terrified. I want to buy a house in the next few years and start a family, but these things are very expensive and I will need a partner to contribute his share in order to make it happen.
He was also hoping to have enough money to travel to Europe next year, while I am in the process of searching for a new job so I can make more money and save for a home down payment.
Help! What should I do?
2007-08-02
05:10:02
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Sam3931
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