I just recently got married and a girlfriend that stood up proved to be a disappointing attendant. From not caring about things before the wedding or even on the day, to not getting a gift I was majorly disappointed. I confronted her with everything and her excuse was that she was "offended" and found it "tacky" that I asked her not to bring a guest. The story is she planned on bringing one of her girlfriends who she runs off with and carouses with, and I know she would have been even worse of a bridesmaid, disappearing and making it truly about her. I have consulted various etiquette websites about this and they all say I am not obliged to invite one of her friends as a guest. I also thought it would be bad to have this girl sit with a bunch of people she didn't know for the dinner. I did forward a verbal invite through my bridesmaid to have her come to the after dinner which her friend did come to. What are your thoughts on this? If you need more details let me know.
2007-08-02
10:07:33
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