Been with my wonderful girl just over a year, when we started seeing each other i joked and said, aye engaged in a year, married in three, and i was pretty serious about it. bought a ring etc, but before i coudl give her it we had an unplanned pregnancy and miscarriage. i crumpled and never gave her the ring, this hurt her badly. she wants us to try for a baby, but isn't bothered about getting married now, says it doesn't matter, that getting engaged with just be a reminder of when we didn't and that having a kid is a bigger commitment anyway. i don;t want to try for a kid yet, i want ot be engaged, i want to be married, then i want to have children with her. we fight about it now and then, and if i could i'd turn back the clock, propose and hope she didn't miscarriage....
i'm in so much pain, i am hopelessly in love with her but i have failed to give her what she wanted, what she needed again and again this year. Feel like a failure, what can i do to make things better???
2007-07-19
05:37:59
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Derek J Kered
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