Wife moved out now with her kids (7 y/o and 13 y/o, to where I don’t know two days ago, after I told her I am not driving your 13 y/o son around town at 9: pm as the price of gas is now. She use the car that evening and didn’t put gas in the car, told me she needs my card. I told why u just get the gas while you out, she had money, I told I just pay the bills. You pay for gas and food. She get mad. Her son suppose come home at certain time he late. He doesn’t respect anyone especially his mother, unless he needs something badly. When if you say no, he goes in a rage by slamming kitchen cabinets, hallway doors and also hitting the wall with his fist. Then he starts playing the TV loud. I told I not let a 13 y/o boy run this house. I told him if you don’t like the rules in the house are, get out of the house. I told that in front of my wife. She told me I was wrong to tell him that. I told her this kid not running over me in my house. He does not have respect for my wife or me. She stay home the next day from her temp job, soon I got home she packed her things and left. She told I was wrong to tell a kid that. I told her you told me I am not their father. I can’t punish them. I have an 8 y/o daughter from prior marriage. She just a doll, respects everyone and even to my wife. But my wife thinks I treat her like a princess. I told that what a father suppose to do. I treat her daughter the same way. But my wife doesn’t spend time with her kids. By taking least 30 minutes out of her day, each day to listen what they have to say. They will respect you. She never told her kids about her spending problem (checks bouncing) every week. Her complaints every week is the bank fault. I told her, she needs to budget and we make it; I never had a money issue until my wife. I told her pay a bill on time, she doesn’t. She got a school check; I deposit for her its bounce, she doesn’t know why. Found out she call the school tell them she never got the check and both show up she put one in her account they took the fees she made, and never told me what she did. They put a stop payment one I put in my bank, now I am short in my bank because of her. I told I need her to give me back the money. She said I am not working and no car, I get to you soon as she can. And tell about her son football equipment in my car she wants back. Wants me call my friend about a car for her, she not working, no figure. I really think my wife is bipolar. Should I assist her, give back her son equipment? I know I never get my money back from her. I am seeking a divorce now. She had someone take my belongs while I was at work before?
2007-07-13
06:29:36
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