I'm a 40+ male who has only had sex with my wife. My problem is that my sex drive is off the charts and her's is not on the charts. She was abused as a child and has very low testasterone and libido. In fact, she says when I die that she will not have sex again!
Due to my need for sexual release, I would supplement our weekly 'get together' with masturbation once or twice a week to pictures I had saved on my PC or cut out of magazines. She caught me one day and told me I was cheating on her. So, I agreed to stop viewing porn pictures. On a previous vacation, she got drunk and allowed me to shoot some photos of her in my favorite lingerie. I now use these pictures to maturbate - but am very concerned that she'll take them if she finds out I'm doing this. She doesn't have a problem with me masturbating in the shower and recognizes that this is 'needed' due to her low libido. But, she doesn't want me using my eyes for stimulation.
Please help!
2007-06-19
06:33:00
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jimbo
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Marriage & Divorce