I do not like the way he treats me?
NO he's not physically abusive! (He's very negative & pessimistic.)
However he treats me as if I am stupid. (I'M NOT!)
If I ask a question he thinks is obvious, he just tells me to look it up. When he wants me to see something on tv or the computer (or ?), I have to stop everything & go see right away, but when I want to share something it's always "quit bothering me"!
It seems it's only me he treats this way!
Don't get me wrong, he does have great qualities! & We do have commonalities. Otherwise I wouldn't still be married to him.
He has high blood pressure & so I try not to "rock the boat". But it really is bringing me down!
What do I do?
Oh, I can tell he could be clinically depressed, but if I were to mention it, he'd tell me to... well I won't repeat it.
What can I do to help him? (& help our marriage in the process!)
I know we can make it 'til we die, if we can minimize the stress!
Pls, no smart alec replies. I am being serious.
2007-06-17
21:46:09
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Lady Harley99
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Marriage & Divorce