I'm newly married wife and I realized that my hubby does need porns no matter how much I hate them. We had gone lots arguments over those and still he hides some(my guess) and I do know that he still goes to those sites and watch them whenever I'm not around when he is using computer. I don't know why I start to hate porns but recently I found and destroyed some of his self made porns with his exs and I almost puked. Really in terms of sex esp in those videos that he made, he is totally another person. And sometimes when we have sex, I can feel that I'm not the one who turned him on and I do see him fantasizing others. Probably he was watching porn or such and he gets horny so he wanna sex with me. sigh.. I did try wearing sexy clothes and everything and of course he enjoys but at the same time, my mind recalls those videos and pictures that he took with his exs and then I feel **** and so low. What am I supposed to do? I hate him watching porns but also I hate to see him not vigor.
2007-06-05
13:05:03
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