Been in a friendly but sexless marriage for many years, and recently fell in love with a married man. However, nothing happened, nothing even said, just flirting, tender looks, fingers touching, and loving smiles. Then I think his feelings were getting the better of him and he started to back off and now he has moved interstate with his wife...I can't help but feel he is trying to do the 'right thing' by his marriage...hence the distance from me. Can't help but admire him for this.....he could have had me anytime.
Anyway, my husband dropped a bombshell on me the other night by saying he would be willing to turn a blind eye if I cheated as he can't perform and it's not fair on me. He has a lot of probs, but he would rather watch porn than be intimate with me. He just isn't interested in me anymore...... I'm not after any other guy. I miss sex terribly, but I would feel guilty having casual affairs. Would like man's answer. Could you accept your wife cheating if circumstances similar?
2007-05-30
04:38:36
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Marriage & Divorce