What would you like to hear when a male approaches you and why?
2007-05-30 04:37:36 · 20 answers · asked by Mark C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't matter, as long as it's not vulgar. I like a guy to be himself, approach me with a smile and relaxed body language.
2007-05-30 04:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile (make sure you have fresh breath and clean teeth)....Then say something charming or witty. If your not sure of how to be charming or witty, compliments work everytime. Try... I really like your hair color, Is that your natural color? Whatever the answer is just say it's beautiful on you. Then go from there...We women like to be noticed..I promise it will get you a date but the more you talk to us the better understanding you'll get. Communication is the key...Good Luck
2007-05-30 11:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jypcee 5000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm X, I saw you earlier and wanted to come talk to you. What's your name?
That's all you gotta say to at least get a pleasant conversation out of it. Not "Heeeey, Maaaami", not "oh yeah, baby", not "you lookin' good" or any of the other lines we girls hear more often than anything else.
Approach us like human beings instead of strippers, and maybe you'll get a good response. :)
2007-05-30 11:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by paradoxyducks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know a simple hi how are you my name is.....blah blah blah without being fresh or overbearing. If the girl looks as if she doesn'th ave time then just say well thank you and have a nice day.
because goodness the catcalls are such a turn off!
2007-05-30 11:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to be approached respectfully...I don't care if his approach is humorous, serious, sweet, intelligent, etc, it's got to be respectful...None of that ridiculous, "Aye, girl, come here!" nonsense...lol...
Respect is my only requirement for an approach...
Later :)
2007-05-30 11:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Prima_Donnassassin! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I I were to be approached, I'd rather him be honest and nervous instead of thinking he's Rico Suave and be "all that".
2007-05-30 12:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be a real friend then maybe more....I don't like to be "hit on"...... My boyfriend and I was friends first then it became something more...We've been dating for a little over two years...
2007-05-30 11:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by ximxca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk normal...no cheese talks maybe offer me and my mates a drink. Not too clean but not too scruffy. And yes clean cut and cute smile.
2007-05-30 11:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by mum who cares 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if a guy where to approach me i would like for him to be himself and not pretend to be someone that he is not. honesty is always a plus.
2007-05-30 11:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lovable ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, how are you?
Can I buy you a drink?
Just be yourself, be friendly and genuinely interested in getting to know me. A "line" is just a turn off.
2007-05-30 11:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋