I’m 25 years old. Still single, and have yet to find my soul mate. People always say, “Don’t worry your young, there’s still time.” Well that’s easy for them to say when they have all got boyfriend, girlfriends, or married. I just feel really old, before my time, and I hate it. I’m going to die a lonely ,old, depressed person.
2007-05-30 04:40:18 · 14 answers · asked by Hob Goblin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW!
emmm ...
WOW
you're so negative!
and .. OK .. just to hit negative with negative: what makes you so sure those who have partners now will have them for the rest of their lives?
You know what's funny: once you find someone (might happen tomorrow) then more and more people will be coming your way. there is that stupid thing: one becomes visible only once is taken ... don't know why, but it is so ... and you ARE young! really young!
OK, I hate proverbs, and pearls of wisdom, but this one s really good: when nothing is certain, everything is possible!
just think of all the wonderful things that can happen to you any day!
2007-05-30 04:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by tricky 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well if you keep thinking that way then you will feel old, you have to stop putting so much pressure on yourself to find your soul mate. You are only 25 and instead of hunting for a man you should be out with your friends having fun and not thinking about who you might meet.
Your soul mate comes along when you least expect it, otherwise it wouldn't be special would it. Start living for the now and not for the future.
Good luck xxx
2007-05-30 04:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it. There's always so many people around me who are YOUNGER than me that always complain about being old. I certainly don't feel old. In fact, I refuse to be old until I'm dead. Age is a number. Old is attitude. If you act like you're old then you are. Don't stress about your age and being single. Just enjoy life and LIVE it. Don't let life pass you by. If you obsess about the things you don't have, you miss the things you do have.
Just to spread a little hope for you, I've been with my boyfriend for just 2 months. This is the first time I've had a boyfriend since college. I'm 32, by the way.
2007-05-30 04:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Are young! Go out and have fun meeting new people. Finding the right person to settle with is not something you plan for and will hit you when you stop trying too hard.
2007-05-30 04:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to does people. i was told that i was to young to marry but i still got married and i am very happy with my husband. i will be 21 next month and i feel better that ever. do not let others put you down. you will find someone ok. best wishes.
2007-05-30 04:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lovable ♥♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do have plenty of time....my grandmother was married 22yrs and then they divorced....at the age of 58 she remarried and it lasted 21 years until he passed away...you never know where or when love is going to come, but when it does you realize it was worth the wait!!!! ; )
2007-05-30 04:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by sissy k 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not exactly old are you?
And is it any wonder you cant get a missus with that outlook on life?
Lighten up a bit mush!
2007-05-30 04:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jay A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you won't just have fun and ask loads of girls on dates, I'm not saying you have to date them just go out have fun and love will find you. All the best Fluffy Monkey x
2007-05-30 04:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same as you. I'm 24. Other people don't really care about our problems so they just say the first thing so you stop going on about it.
2007-05-30 04:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
25 huh darn old age pensioner, better get a walking stick or zimmer frame so you can go down the Darby and Joan club...
or
Pull yourself together and just go out and have fun!
2007-05-30 04:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by robert x 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋