my boyfriend of half year, have made such a decision that we are going on dates for few times stop having sex with each other for few days before jump back to the old routine (four nights together), the reason he wants to do this is that we had lots of fights over the last few months, and we almost break up. but we still love each other, but he doesnt like me dont trust him sometimes, a bit obsessive, insecure,jealous?? i never thought i have these issues with guys..(excuse me the english sense of humour--if a guy tells you he loves you sometimes, how that helps you secure?) we got together pretty quickly. and having great sex. maybe due to the fights, we seems have less fun together apart from bedroom from his view... i feel his decision making me feeling emotional distanced... i dont understand why he makes such decision, he says he wants to find the old happy me and old happy him together, grow closer...but i feel this makes me sad and hurt..is it a good idea to do this?
2007-05-24
04:09:03
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sabella
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Marriage & Divorce