How can u tell if your husband is in the marriage for the right reasons? I'm gonna do my best to make a long story short...he had affair, blamed it on his unhappiness in the marriage, then 1 night I over heard him tell his best friend, he's wating til the kids are 18 and he's "outta here". Then I confronted him on all of this, he cried, said he was sorry, professed his love for me, said he had the best thing in the world standing right in front of him the whole time and was too blind or selfish 2 see it. He said he made that comment cuz he was mad and didn mean it. I'm so confused. All of the previous mentioned history, then, he WANTS to go to marriage counseling, takes me on a weekend marriage retreat, buys me a $3000.00 new wedding set, arranges with our priest to renew our vows, etc. How does 1 become SO confused, they have an affair in 1 heart beat and do all of the other stuff in the next? Is he playing me, 2 keep me happy so i have nothing 2 worry about, or is he sincere?
2007-05-11
15:58:41
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