recently my girlfriend and Ihave been arguing and stuff a lot. She has told me that I am smothering her, and that she needs her space. This all started when we were about to move in together. Our habits as far as seeing each other has not chance in 4 months, but all of a sudden now she feels like im around her too much. She will invite me over to her place, and then get mad at me because i "make a move" or just because im there. I have tried giving her some space, but it seems like the more space I give the more she wants me to stay away. I have tried talking to her about it, buying her flowers, and giving her a card. I called off us moving in together indefinately, and told her that we can slow things down. It still doesnt seem to help. She tells me that she doesnt want to break up with me, but at the same time she doesnt seem to want to be with me. What do I do? I really love her, and I know some of this is my fault, i just dont know what to do to make it better, please help!
2007-05-10
21:31:21
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Keith T
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