100000% and start young around 5 and work upwards bit by bit.
Kids just take it in like you explaining how a car works... no giggling or embarasment.
Most of the problems in the west are cuased by a lack of sex ed in explicit detail.
the dutch had the best system in the 80s...
see the links and what you need to include.
. You need to cover rape, peadphilia and defence agaist it.
Why guys and girls think differnent and whats normal.
ie girls getting facianted with rock stars and why,
How all guys and girls masturbate and its normals and no hairy palms etc.
about gays and lesbians and percentages. About sex toys, blow jbs and other affection... ie everything
You don’t have to go all the way yet.
Lots more fun to get good at with boyfriend and best before you take everything to full on sex level get good at all this...
3rd base and all subsections...
ie lots of hands down pants stuff.
ie get good at getting finger jobs, giving hand jobs, boobie jobs, him giving you lick jobs, you giving him blow jobs...
Unless sperm gets in or on your vagina these won't get you pregnant (see below as not rics free ie sperm on fingers or drops and dribbles in wrong spot)
The purpose of this is like getting used to seeing each other naked and been seen naked... is to get much more used to each other and dealing with the feelings involved with more advanced sex activities.
Also with giving him hand jobs and other... lots of practice with condoms and seeing that they are not completely safe ie getting sperm on fingers as you take them of or drops coming off his now creamy willy.
Also helps before you go all the way to get good at foreplay... both of you so all nicely warmed up and making it part of boning each other... and doing this in various spots...
Ie the 5 min blow between train stations... with stopwatch and alarm.
This will take a bit longer for you to get fully sexual but be much better.
It matters not how it gets in as long as a single microscopic sperm cell gets in, it can get you pregnant.
Be he come inside your vagina, the sperm is on fingers that go inside you; it does not have to go inside... Sperm swims, vaginas are wet, it only has to get on the outside or near enough to be wiped over, or even go though underwear (just like water and you can get pregnant.
And as soon as willies are hard they leak sperm to lubricate and moisturise the Willy so the skin don’t crack and the Willy does not get hurt.
Kinda all in one the sperm lubricating a Willy which the guy can’t feel, only a drop or so contains millions of sperm, it only takes one.
When he cums i.e. squirts it contains trillions of sperms...
Few million then a few trillion and it only takes one.
Get the picture? Oh and it stays in body for a week so you can get pregnant anytime of the month. It’s just some days it’s more likely that’s all.
IF THIS HAS OCCURED IN THE LAST TWO DAYS GO NOW, NOW NOW NO WAITING FOR OTHER REPLIES TO THE DOCTORS, CHEMIST, HOSPITAL OR FAMILY PLANNING CLINCI FOR A MORING AFTER PILL WHICH HOPEFULLY WILL STOP IT
AND OR A COIL INSERTED FROM DOC, FAMILY PLANNING, PLANNED PREGNANCY ETC WHICH MAY BE USED UP TO 5 DAYS AFTER SEX.
THE QUICKER THE BETTER.
i HAVE THE BACK UP OF ALL THE AGNECIES BELOW AND MORE INFO AS YOU GO DOWN
SEE THE LOT.
THIS IS HOW YOU KNOW IM TELLING THE TRUTH
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also
A)
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS PULLING OUT FOR SAFETY.
AS SOON AS A DK IS HARD IT LEAKS SOME SPERM (MILLIONS PER DROP TO LUBRICATE AND MOISTURISE THE WILLY)
ANY ONE OF THESE CAN GET YOU PREGANT.
YOU SEX ED HAS BEEN WORTHLESS, YOUR PARENTS AND TEACHERS ARE CRIMINALLY NEGLIGENT AND ALL THE AGENCIES BELOW CAN BACK ME UP.
It only takes one time.
If you have been taking the pill (if that is what celest is)as intructed, on time (honestly) no skipping, vometing, diaoreah or taking antibiotics or st johns wort
you should be ok IF YOU FOLLOWED THE INSTRUCTIONS.
Always best to have a back up ie condoms and the pill
Injections are better. less **** ups.
see all info below... yes i know its long.
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Ask those whose job it is to answer these things ho tell you the truth.
Not your mates or any tom dick or Harry here.
That’s like asking a Hairdresser how to fix you cars breaks
Ie can a girl get pregnant during her period?
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/pregnancy/a/whenpregoccur.htm
http://www.newscientist.com/article.ns?id=dn3927
Truth is yes especially if you are a teenager whose cycles may not have stabilised. Though most guys would be like euuuuw
Sperm stays around for a week inside you and sometimes especially teen girls have multiple ovulations or varying cycles.
Whilst at it
You can also get pregnant is the guy pulls out as
A) Guys in teens come in seconds with no control, be even if they *** over your vagina it still works (see below)
B) Willies as soon as still leak drops of sperm to moisturise and lubricate the willy... Guy can't feel them but each drop contains millions of sperm, one will do the trick. When he comes its billions instead that’s all.
2) You can’t get pregnant from a BJ unless you spit it out onto you fingers or other item which touches you down there
3) Anything oil based i.e. chocolate or ice cream makes tiny holes in condom rubber like acid that sperm can get through in seconds. (Polyurethane ones like Durex Avanti are immune to them)
4) IMPORTANT
ANY way ANY sperm get on, in or near you vagina can get you pregnant... sperm swims in wet environments and can swim across your thigh and into your vagina. If it’s wet its alive outside the body. If the guy spills drops, drips, humps your leg and cums near, on you belly and it dribbles down on you butt even in it and it dribbles out and down between you legs, is wiped,
You sit on a 'wet patch' he comes on you panties and it goes through the material (well are they rubber? if water gets through so does ***).
Or on fingers say when he took the condom off and got some on fingers and did not wash his hands or willy after.
ALL can get you pregnant... So it’s smart to get on the patch, injection or implants... Follow the instructions i.e. certain drugs, medicines, vitamins like antibiotics or St Johns worth will stop it working temporarily.
But won’t stop STDs which you can get from oral sex if cuts or ulcers in mouth (likewise herpies from cold sores) or eye contact say touching eyes.
And as blood borne say STDs can come from first aid or open wounds say in sports or an accident.
So still wear condoms as well.
And practice using them as it’s not as easy as it sounds. One **** up and life ****** up.
No extra lives.
And practice getting morning after pills ie where to go so you know and on a sunday or say xmas day.
AND IF ANYTHING GOES WRONG AND YOU THINK THERE IS A-N-Y DANGER OF GETTING PREGNANT YOU DO N-O-T WASTE TIME ASKING SILLY QUESTIONS HERE OR WITH YOUR MATES OR THINK WE'LL BE OK...
YOU
GET
YOU
BUTT
TO
GET
A MORNING AFTER PILL
95% gonner work if taken within 24 hours (so don’t wait and ask questions here and on a Sunday or say xmas day go to hospital) that’s 5% you going to get pregnant
25-48 hours (two days and nights)
Its only 85% efficets that’s 15 % chance you will get pregnant
After 2 days its only 58% effective (much like flipping a coin)
You may be able to get a IUD coil as well.
IN OTHER WORDS NO QUERSTIONS ON COULD I BE PREGNANT… GO AND GET THE DAMN PILL OR BETTER STILL HAVE SOME IN THE HOUSE JUST IN CASE… BUT ITS FOR EMERGENCIES…
Proper contraception is better ie depro injections AND condoms.
THAT NIGHT OF FOLLOWING MORNING EVEN IF BUNKING OFF SCHOOL OR WORK... TRUST ME BRING PROOF AND THEY WILL THINK YOU DID THE RIGHT THING.
EVERY HOUR COUNTS...
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SUCCESSFUL SEX ED COUNTRIES STATS AND INFO
http://www.nvsh.nl/english/index.htm
http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/publications/factsheet/fsest.htm
http://www.mistymedia.co.uk/blog/2005/09/29/dutch_sex_education/
http://www.channel4.com/learning/microsites/L/lifestuff/content/up_close/letstalksex/index.html
http://www.channel4.com/learning/microsites/L/lifestuff/content/up_close/letstalksex/dutch.html
http://www.channel4.com/learning/microsites/L/lifestuff/content/up_close/letstalksex/findoutmore.html
DUTCH SEX EDUCATION
www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/tcr/files/tcr/news/
europetour.xml#1119288090469::6998015254475574609
Blog of American sex educator on fact-finding tour round Europe, including trip to Netherlands
http://www.rutgersnissogroep.nl/English
HELPLINES FOR TEENAGERS TO ANSWER QUESTIONS
TEENAGE HEALTH FREAK
www.teenagehealthfreak.org
Questions from real teenagers, answered by experts, plus lots of other information.
SEXWISE
Tel: 0800 28 29 30
www.ruthinking.co.uk
Free confidential advice and information on sex, relationships and contraception, for anyone under 18.
NHS DIRECT
Tel: 0845 46 47 (NHS 24 in Scotland: 0845 4242424)
Website: www.nhs.uk/England/NoAppointmentNeeded/
WalkInCentres/Default.aspx
Locate your local walk-in clinic for advice on sexual health and emergency contraception.
www.childline.org.uk
FOR YOUNG PEOPLE
www.4yp.co.uk
FAMILY PLANNING ASSOCIATION
www.fpa.org.uk
www.brook.org.uk
BROOK
421 Highgate Studios
53–79 Highgate Road
London NW5 1TL
Helpline: 0800 0185 023 (Mon–Fri 9am–5pm)
E-mail: admin@brookcentres.org.uk
Website: www.brook.org.uk
Provides free and confidential sexual health advice and contraception for anyone under 25. The website has tons of useful information including a secure on-line enquiry service and a text messaging service.
http://www.mariestopes.org.uk/
EMERGENCY ADVICE
NATIONAL SEXUAL HEALTH LINE: 0800 567 123 (Available 24/7)
Website:
www.playingsafely.co.uk/worried/emergency/emergency.asp
Free, confidential advice on sexual health and infections, local clinics and sources of help.
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STD PHOTOS
http://www.herpes-coldsores.com/std/pictures.htm
http://www.soaaids.nl/english
HIV AND AIDS
Avert
www.avert.org
UK-based HIV and AIDS information site, with lots of info about sex education world wide. Includes section for teenagers.
BODY AND SOUL
Tel: 020 7383 7678
E-mail: info@bodyandsoulcharity.org
Website: www.bodyandsoulcharity.org
Charity supporting teenagers who are HIV positive. Teen Spirit is a unique support group for teenagers (13 upwards) who know of their HIV status or that of a member of their family. Body and Soul is the only group in the UK providing weekly support to teenagers living with, or affected by HIV and AIDS.
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MORE SEX AND RELATIONSHIP INFO
CHANNEL 4 RESOURCES
Both are available from the online shop.
Living and Growing DVD and Resource Books
Resource for 5 to 11 year olds developed in response to requests from teachers for a resource that promotes sex and relationship education as a developmental process, beginning in the early years at an appropriate level and progressing through childhood and adolescence into adulthood. Organisations
Channel 4 is not responsible for the content of third-party sites.
TEENAGE PREGNANCY UNIT
www.dfes.gov.uk/teenagepregnancy/
dsp_Content.cfm?PageID=85
Information about the Government's Teenage Pregnancy Strategy.
PRE-TEENS
www.factsoflife.org.uk/
Information on puberty and growing up for teachers, parents and preteens.
A–Z OF LOVE AND SEX DVD
A fast-moving, unashamedly direct series that answers all those burning questions about love and sex that are often far too embarassing to articulate. The emphasis is on young people being able to make informed, responsible decisions in their personal lives.
COSMO GIRL PETITION
education.guardian.co.uk/schools/story/0,,1719847,00.html
Guardian story about petition from teenagers demanding better sex education, led by Cosmo Girl magazine.
Family Planning Association (fpa)
Helpline: 0845 310 1334
Website: www.fpa.org.uk
Website offers information on all aspects of sexual health, plus how to find your nearest fpa clinic, where you can get advice and treatment on sexual health, pregnancy and contraception. Wide range of leaflets and books for all age groups, also a parents' pack.
SCARLETEEN
www.scarleteen.com
American site with loads of sex education info aimed at people aged 13–25.
Sex, etc.
WWW.SEXETC.ORG
American website by teens, for teens, with information on sex, contraception and relationships, including talk board and blog.
THE SITE
www.thesite.org.uk
Site run by the charity YouthNet, with factsheets, support and guidance for young adults on sex and relationships.
SEX EDUCATION
Department for Education and Skills
Website: www.dfes.gov.uk/sreguidance/
Guidance for schools on SRE, issued in 2000.
National Healthy Schools Programme
Website: www.wiredforhealth.gov.uk/cat.php?catid=842
Downloadable documents about the National Healthy Schools Programme, including details of how your school can join.
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OTHER SITES OF INTEREST
ATTITUDES TOWARDS SEX
www.mori.com/polls/2006/obs060110.shtml
Mori poll on adults' attitudes towards sex.
BATTLE OF THE SEXES
www.channel4.com/science/microsites/B/battle_sexes/
Gender Lab experiment designed to work out what goes on in the minds of men and women.
BODY STORY: TEEN DREAMS
www.channel4.com/science/microsites/B/
bodystory/teen.html
Combination of drama and ultra-realistic computer graphics of a day in the life of a teenager going through puberty.
DUTCH SEX EDUCATION
www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/tcr/files/tcr/news/
europetour.xml#1119288090469::6998015254475574609
Blog of American sex educator on fact-finding tour round Europe, including trip to Netherlands
TEENAGE MAGAZINE ARBITRATION PANEL
www.ppa.co.uk/tmap/links.htm
Website of the Teenage Magazine Arbitration Panel, the publishing industry's self-regulatory body, which ensures that sexual information is presented in a responsible way to a teenage audience.
YOUNG MINDS
www.youngminds.org.uk
Help for teens with problems such as depression and substance abuse.
FAMILY PROBLEMS
ASSOCIATION OF FAMILY THERAPISTS
7 Executive Suite
St James Court
Wilderspool Causeway
Warrington
Cheshire WA4 6PS
Tel: 01925 444414
Website: www.aft.org.uk
Information about what family therapy is and how it works.
HOW TO FIND A LOCAL THERAPIST.
National Family Mediation
7 The Close
Exeter EX1 1EZ
Tel: 01392 271610
Website: www.nfm.u-net.com/
Information about mediation services which may be available for couples who are separating, including help for children.
RELATE
Herbert Gray College
Little Church Street
Rugby
Warwickshire
CV21 3AP
Tel: 0845 456 1310
E-mail: enquiries@relate.org.uk
Website: www.relate.org.uk
Family counselling and courses for parents may be available in your part of the country. Call or check the website to find out what's on offer locally.
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GAY/LESBIAN/BISEXUAL
Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (FFLAG)
7 York Court
Wilder Street
Bristol BS2 8HQ
Helpline: 01454 852418
Website: www.fflag.org.uk
Telephone helplines and parents' groups across the UK. Free downloadable booklet, How Do I Tell My Parents.
London Lesbian and Gay Switchboard
Helpline: 020 7837 7324
Website: www.llgs.org.uk
Information, support and referral service for lesbians, gay men and bisexual people throughout the UK.
STONEWALL
46 Grosvenor Gardens
London SW1W 0EB
Tel: 020 7881 9440
E-mail: info@stonewall.org.uk
Website: www.stonewall.org.uk
Stonewall works to achieve equality and justice for gay men, lesbians and bisexual people, including the Education For All campaign, which tackles homophobia and homophobic bullying in schools.
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THE SEX EDUCATION DEBATE
www.channel4.com/health/microsites/
0-9/4health/sex/sar_sexedcred.html
Channel 4 site, with overview on how young people learn about sex, in the UK and elsewhere.
Note this is the uk…
The uk has the highest teen pregnancy in Europe
You really want the dutch version
SEX EDUCATION FORUM
National Children's Bureau
8 Wakley Street
London EC1V 7QE
Tel: 020 7843 1901
Website: www.ncb.org.uk/sef
The national authority on sex and relationships education. Site includes factsheets and useful information for parents and teachers.
QUALIFICATIONS AND CURRICULUM AUTHORITY (QCA)
www.qca.org.uk/7835.html
2005 guidelines on assessing sex education within schools, plus teaching resources.
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DRUG EDUCATION TOP SITES… IE NO BS OR MORAL TRIPE
LIFELINE
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WITH THE VERY BEST LEAFLETS FOR TEENAGERS AND COVERS OTHER HELPFUL STUFF NOT JUST DRUG REALTED…
VERY COOL, WELL TARGETED. TALKING TO TEENAGERS ON THEIR LEVEL IN CLUBBY CULTURE AND WAS STARTED UP BY EX RAVERS AND THOSE WHO COULD OPERATE WITH THE SUPPORT OF SQUAT PARTY ORGANISERS
www.lifelinepublications.org
http://www.lifelinepublications.org/catalogue.php?PHPSESSID=473789af35d8be97a77bfe96711047dc
DRUGSCOPE
THE BEST DATA SOURCE FOR DRUG INFO WHERE OTHER AGENCIES GET THEIR FACTS.
USED TO BE KNOWN AS THE ISDD THE INSTUTE FOR THE STUDY OF DRUG DEPENDANCY
www.drugscope.org.uk
www.lifeline.org.uk
www.talktofrank.com
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DRUG AND DRINK INFO
TALK TO FRANK
Helpline: 0800 77 66 00 (24 hours)
Textphone: 0800 917 8765
Email: frank@talktofrank.com
Website: www.talktofrank.com
Provides free confidential drugs information and advice 24 hours a day. All calls are confidential. Use the website's search facility to get the contact details of organisations offering practical help and support in your area.
ALCOHOL AND DRUGS
Alcohol Concern
32–36 Loman Street
London SE1 0EE
Tel: 020 7928 7377 (Mon–Fri 9am–5pm)
E-mail: contact@alcoholconcern.org.uk
Website: www.alcoholconcern.org.uk
Umbrella organisation for 500 local agencies which help those with alcohol problems and their friends and families.
ALCOHOL AND DRUGS – WHAT PARENTS NEED TO KNOW
www.rcpsych.ac.uk/info/mhgu/newmhgu30a.htm
One of the 'Mental Health and Growing Up' factsheets produced by The Royal College of Psychiatrists.
DRINKAWARE
www.drinkaware.co.uk/howmany.php
Website with useful online tools to help you check the amounts of units you're drinking and advice on how to keep within safe levels. Lots of other online hints and tips.
DRINKLINE
Helpline: 0800 917 8282 (24 hours)
A free national helpline offering advice and information for people with alcohol problems or anyone concerned about alcohol misuse. Provide advice on sensible drinking and information on local support services to help people cut down on their drinking.
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