A year ago, two guys both younger than me and very much interested were playing one-up-manship over me. Both encouraged me to date them and did not ask for a committment, knowing I was probably looking for something more serious than they were about to offer, but they gradually came to offer everything. In the end I had decision to make, but I was unable to really think because my job collapsed, and I had a nervous breakdown. After I actually left the job and the dust cleared, I thought I still had a choice to make, and started breaking up with my friend and got ready to commit to my long-distance friend. But, just at that instant, he began dating someone else. I was crushed, I felt my trust was crushed. He felt, I think, that I should be tolerant of what he was doing, because he had been tolerant of me. To me, though, this felt like the ultimate loss of trust, because my whole reason for not committing before was his youth and my uncertainty whether he would be able to commit.
2007-05-09
21:21:02
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