My husband of 16 years is making me crazy with his selfishness and jealousy. He's jealous of every minute and every penny that I spend on our kids - which really isn't a lot. If I buy something for the kids, I have to buy something for him. the kids need braces, but he won't hear of spending that type of money on them. As far as college goes, he says the kids can take care of themselves. Anytime anything happens with me or the kids the focus turns to how this will affect HIM. I' m so sick and tired of hearing how he wants to get away from the kids - he keeps insisting that we need a vacation. The kids do all the chores and household cleaning and laundry. I pitch in when I can, but I think it's wrong to essentially use them as servants. I did all the chores when I was a kid, but I know that HE didn't. He's big (400 lbs+) and scarey and termpermental and seems to enjoy getting upset. We spend our lives trying to make sure that we don't provoke him. What can I do?
2007-05-07
09:49:03
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Zinnia
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Marriage & Divorce