3 weeks ago I found out I was pregnant but my partner isn't ready. He had already left me last week because I told him that I wanted to keep it. He told me if I cared about him I would have an abortion and wait 1 year, because he wants to do everything right. We have been living together for 4 years and still not married, so first he wants to get out of debt, get married and have kids later. (He already has a 7 years old daughter from previous marriage) He is turning 36 and I'm 28, I feel ready, I have always prayed to God to get pregnant.
We are back together now because he thinks I will have an abortion, but my plan is to live with my family where I can get support while I'm on mat leave.
I know he doesn't love me because if he did he would respect my decesion to have this child. I already have accepted this fact, and the reason why I'm with him now because I'm spending my last days with him till my tummy gets bigger. Does he have the rights? I have already promised to God.
2007-04-30
04:17:24
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