I have a theory on this,
When a "nice guy" enters into a relationship with the typical woman, he will build up her confidence. He compliments her on her looks, her actions and her personality. He treats her right and her confidence begins to grow. Now that her confidence has reached new heights, she will think "this guy is nice, but with my new confidence I can approach that really really "hot guy"" This is where the "nice guy" is dumped
Ok now let me explain the other side of my theory, its why women stay with the cocky guys.
Now with the swollen confidence from her "nice guy" this girl approaches the new "hot guy" and begin a relationship. He talks mainly about himself. He doesnt say it outright but he makes her feel like she is lucky to be dating such a "hot guy" like himself. He never compliments her. Her confidence sinks. She is now convinced that she IS lucky to have this "hot guy" and does whatever she can to remain with this guy.
Do you aggree? what are ur thoughts?
2007-03-29
06:57:25
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