I don't mind giving that. When I try to fill up my love tank with factual conversation with my husband he thinks I am nagging. I feel that unless we are "physical" he doesnt want to bother with me too much. I only do things that are family oriented or that pertain to my children and husband...that is all I have to talk about. We do have a tight budget but he doesn't want to talk about that either, like I am trying to accuse him of not working hard enough. I work too, but I make little compared to him and he doesn't mind reminding me of that. I get the sense that my needs are not important, even though I know I am loved. Should I let this pass, or will it pass? My life with my ex was like this, I felt that I had to please him but I could not talk to him about my concerns or needs. Why do people in a relationship get so defensive, and who is a woman SUPPOSED to talk to. I have NO family and very few friends. Any advice or opinion would be appreciated.
2007-03-24
01:03:19
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lrlseuell
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