I've had a girlfriend for over two years. She's an incredibly attractive girl, and she gets hit on all the time. She's always been a "flirt" at work, but my problem is that she took it too far with a guy.
It was a couple days after a fight, when things were back to normal. I saw her texting someone and she got embarrassed and wouldn't tell me who/what/etc. She eventually showed me, and she was pretty much throwing herself at this guy (who she later admitted to me that she had a crush on), basically saying "screw my boyfriend, let's get together". Although she didn't technically cheat on me, she did emotionally.
I felt incredibly betrayed by this, and I've become incredibly insecure. She insists she'd never cheat on me, but I'm nearly paranoid about it.
I never cared too much that she "flirt" until now, because I refuse to believe that it's as harmless to her as it is to the guy she does it to.
I need advice on how to either get over it or ways for her to earn back my trust.
2007-03-24
22:05:54
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Greg
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