I have now confronted my wife of 7 years (4 kids) with her infidelity and we are in counseling. She is going to be on a trip for a week and a half with a Jr. High Group and one of our daughters. She is planning to get a inexpensive apartment to move into while she sorts out her problems and within the next three months begins to work with me to address ours. We still talk pleasantly, laugh, and parent our children. We support eachother and there is closeness there. However, she has had an affair. She has agreed to "No Contact" with the OM and is now getting a job. Obviously I feel like our future is very much on the ropes and I am not holding out much if any hope. However, all things being equal, I would rather reconcile and allow our children to be raised in a secure home. I am wondering what I need to be aware of while moving into this phase, how I should set and enforce boundaries and what I can do to insure the greatest chance at reconcilliation.
2007-03-22
03:08:04
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findingselflove
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Marriage & Divorce