my ex left me three weeks ago and after he said he wanted to be friends so i said that would be fine we still run into eachother alot so i didnt want bad blood between us. but now that hes trying to get with some other women and is telling me to F*** off im kinda mad but still hurt. i still love this man very much dont really want to get back together with him but dont want bad blood. how do i talk to him? how do i stop hurting and move on with my life. there a guy i know that ive liked even before my ex should i try to get with him. one problem though hes my brothers friend. what do i do about all of this?
2007-03-22 03:08:20 · 10 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, you have to listen to your heart!! If the other guy is what you want, go for it. Now, as to getting over your ex:
One way you could patch things up is leave a letter on his dorrstep saying that you don't want to fight, and basically what you have told all of us here up above. At the end, have the address and time of a place for him to meet you AS FRIENDS if he is willing to work things out. If he comes, then you know things will be okay, and if he is a no show, you can at leaast say you tried. And if you do not try, you will never get a moments peace. The little voice in your head will never let you forget.
2007-03-22 03:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by Linka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. Sometimes you just can't be friends with exes so suddenly after a break up. That happens with time after your over it. If he would've really been mature you could have been friends but he is telling you to bleep off, that's disrespecting you already. Friends shouldn't do that.
You need to get over him and avoid situations where he will be because you will only receive heartache by watching his behavior. I wouldn't recommend you get with another guy, you will only hurt him and will still be thinking about the other guy when your with him. You don't need all that drama. Time is what you need. Avoid the other guy, love hurts...
2007-03-22 03:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by Charisma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all takes time and well nothing will ever be the same not as friends or any thing else there will always be those akward moments and those long stares
just let it be and heal focus on some thing else find anew friend and just hang out to gether give him a dose of how he makes you feel when he tells you to get lost most important don't let him know what's hurting you
2007-03-22 03:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by country-girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically ur ex is not even interested in being friends with you. asking u to F off is confirmation. besides u said u'll be fine...and with that, just leave him alone. what a guy needs last is his ex bugging him when proabably she's the last thing on his mind now. move on with your life.
I think you ought to let your bro know that you are interested in his fren. nothing wrong wif going out wif ur bro's fren provided
he's ok with it. you dun wanna make the wrong move and get him mad at you.
2007-03-22 03:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by dovett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a frightening hadith of Prophet(pbuh) I have no idea the detailed phrases however the hadith is that If a Muslim see an oppression and makes a decision to not do some thing approximately it, does not condemn the acts of the oppressor through his middle or through his speech have the bottom degree of Emaan.
2016-09-05 11:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be the bigger person. Don't do or say anything that you will regret later. You'll feel better soon.
2007-03-22 03:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waa waa waa........ I'm sorry but, don't you have any friends you could talk about this with? It's not like anyone on here really knows you or him, so how could we provide any relevant advice?
2007-03-22 03:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by Tellus A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself this. This dude is a jerk! Let him be a jerk with some one else. As you deserve better!
2007-03-22 03:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2007-03-22 03:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a loooong time to heal sometimes...good luck
2007-03-22 03:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋