Help with embarrasing situation?

Question

This is always embarrasing, does this happen to anyone else?

When you just meet someone, you decide to have sex, but then you have to use some protection. This is your first time with her and it is making you rather nervous. You have to put a condom on, but it is like putting an uninflated balloon on an green bean because of the fact that your leaning tower of Pisa has fallen. Condoms are like a necessary evil to us men. I mean, what's a guy to do in this situation?

By the way, I know that this is the Gay/Lesbian area, but wanted to put this question here because you all are the most candid with these answers, and generally speaking seem to be more comfortable speaking about things of a sexual nature.

Answer 1

Although you're in the wrong section, here's an idea: make it part of erotic play....have your sex partner put the condom on you. The other person's touch on your penis will get that tower to stop leaning in no time.

Answer 2

Just be honest with her and tell her that sometimes you go limp when you put a condom on. Then ask her if she is wants to do foreplay for a while. After some good long foreplay you should not have a problem performing. And if you do then I would suggest that you get a few samples of Viagra from your doctor. Good luck with leaning tower XD

Answer 3

Well, worst case scenario, hopefully you've made the right choice by being with a nice girl. A decent girl will be supportive, understand your apprehension, tell you she's fine with the situation, there's no problems, she still thinks you're awesome and either a little bit later or the next time you get together, you should be fine! :)
Because you're not a machine and she should know that and respect that. If she doesn't, then she's an idiot!

Answer 4

Maybe you picked this category for Freudian reasons and you go limp as you begin "the act" because you don't really want to have intercourse. Or maybe not

The oral sex suggestion above isn't a good idea--it's just having sex without a condom--it doesn't matter what orifice you use, the risk is the same.

Answer 5

I might desire to admit which you had an embarrassing difficulty on your palms..The minute you knew the reason for the laughter ,you probably did the only ingredient you should do which replaced into to zip up your pants;working out replaced into not mandatory. in case you spot the ladies who have been modern interior the keep at a later time ,then you definately can grant them your apology and upload which you do not comprehend the way it ought to have exceeded off.quicker or later you're guaranteed to run into them so purely be on the look out.

Answer 6

Well, you could wait until you're able to raise a flag again before putting the condom on. Or, as part of the sexual play, you could let your partner put it on for you.

Answer 7

THis happens frequently - -just work it back up to full staff and then slip it one. You might also cosider purchasing what is known as a (o(k ring. It traps the blood and helps you retain a hard on!

Answer 8

i know your in the wrong catagory list here dude but i would like to thank you for being one of the very few str8 people who actualy post a question not downing gay people or lesbians and etc. maybe you did it on accident and if so well then whatever or maybe u actualy want our opinion and thats cool too but whatever the reason its nice to see....

Answer 9

Nope never had that problem, don't usually have sex on the first date...AND...I don't have a penis.

Try asking this in the "Dating and Relationships" category......You DO know this is the "Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered" category...right?

Answer 10

Well, since I don't date men, and I don't have a penis and I don't need a condom, I can't help you on this one. I'm sure someone has already suggested posting in a different area.....