The two people that make me feel the most calm, my mother, and my fiance. I want them both present for the birth of our child, but them only.
Hs mother is very sweet, but can be overwhelming with her attention sometimes. She's already told everyone that she's going to watch the birth, but I won't feel comfortable with my legs spread out in stirrups and her seeing it all. I'm just beginning to really get to know her and having her in the delivery room would make me extremely uncomfortable.
My fiance says he only wants himself in there. But I know that if I mention that I want my mother present for the comfort I know she can give he'll insist his mother be there also. I don't want to hurt anyones feelings, what do I do?
I know that if I tell her flat out it will cause a family feud. I don't want that. Help!
2007-03-22
03:07:00
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