I really tried to be "friend" with my ex as he wants that...But we ended up almost every time we met in the ....bed..We had very strong feelings for each other and very intense moments, so How can you be just friend???Thats impossible!!!
Im really gelous if he meet other girls...so that means I still love him???
He keeps tellling me Im so important for him ., bla bla, but we can not be togheder anymore...and every time we meet I hope we gonna get back togheder....Every time we end up arguying when we meet...
I think the only way to keep yourself stronger is to NOT see each otner anymore...What do you think, guys?
2007-03-22 03:07:15 · 12 answers · asked by Indra75 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel that strongly about the guy still, then I'd say no, it's not possible to be "just friends." Maybe eventually, but not right now. Cut off contact for a while, or at least cut it down to the occasional phone call and email, but don't hang out with the guy. Move on with your life without him being so much a part of it or you'll never get over him. And once you feel strong enough, or even have gone on some dates or have a new man, then try the friend thing if you find he still means enough to you to have a friendly relationship with. You may find you only want to be his friend to stay close to him and wait on that second chance.
2007-03-22 03:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by misguidedrose18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea that situation sucks.... bring another guy into the picture and see how he reacts... the sex must be good, but you being hurt is not worth it. You can find someone new to share your love with. There's no point in wasting your energy in trying to get him to go out with you again. All he wants is your body. Talk to him about this cool new guy you just met... he'll most likely get jealous and start asking alot of questions... start to distance yourself from him. and #1.. RESPECT.. he needs to respect you and not be using you for just sex and telling you how much you mean to him.. then an hour later he's with some other chick... f*ck that.. let him know that is'nt going to fly anymore!
2007-03-22 03:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by enano_morado69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adriana,
Its too soon to remain friends. Emotions are still too high and raw. I find it difficult though to understand what he wants from you. As i see it, he wants his cake and to eat it too. Sounds like he wants the best of both worlds, that is, to have someone but be single too. Give him the boot. He is not worth your energy and certainly not deserving of your love. I know its difficult now, particularly when you still love him, but in time you will see what an absolute jerk he really is. I doubt then if you will even want to be his "friend". Take care and good luck
2007-03-22 03:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am experiencing a similar situation like you, worst is, we don't quarrel when we meet. I guess if you two are still single, there's no problem of being intimate; just that he will never be your EX. On the contrary it's better do as you said, stop seeing each other again.
2007-03-22 03:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by marga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have many guy friends that are attractive. I also love them like my brothers. But I do not at all consider them for a relationship. You need to have that state of mind. You broke up for a reason, because you dont get along. I know it is hard to let go but it has to be done.
2007-03-22 03:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attached to him & he isn't attached to you then you will get hurt 'cause you are getting upset at the fact that he is moving on from you. So it is best that you end it or ask him what is going on. Me & my fiance' broke up for 7 months & all we did was get together & have sex, but he realized that he missed me & I missed him so he started to come around & here we are getting married soon. It just all depends, but don't sale yourself short. And don't continue having sex with him & getting mad for when he is with other girls 'cause you are only hurting yourself.
Talk to him or walk out.
2007-03-22 03:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by xjalyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, it's almost impossible to be "friends" with someone you still have feelings for. you need to cut yourself off completely from him until those feelings subside. if you two are meant to be friends in the long run, you'll eventually end up as such.
an ex-boyfriend of mine had to do that to me a couple years ago, b/c he still had feelings for me long after we'd broken up, and it tortured him to hang out with me as just a friend. so he finally came out and told me we couldn't be friends at all, b/c he needed to get over me. it did make me feel really bad to know i was putting him through all that mess. but, in the end, things turned out for the best. he called me a year later, and we've been great friends ever since, with no hard feelings between us!
2007-03-22 03:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Haiti Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if she love someone else and want to be continue with ur friendship only but not for .. love so i think it's better to say i don't need you' rather not saying " i need u". so in my view there should be no more conversations and meetings.
2007-03-22 03:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by abhishek_cool_eyesse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy friendship grows. just like a spark than can enight. grow that friend ship again. show him how u have changed by your actions or say things a lidifferent maybe his attraction will grow all over again and he will fall in love with you
2007-03-22 03:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by patty h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex means Ex ,, unless u want it to mean somthing else.
2007-03-22 03:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋